I'm so confused...

OK so i think I've found the right person for me, but as soon as I do,two other guys say they like and I'm so confused....I like all three of them, but I'm not sure which one is the right one for me...one has a shady past..the other I dont know that well....and the other I'm not sure if I know at all...I'm so confused...what in the world do i do....?:why?::nono:

 

eeny meeny miny moe perhaps <-----don't do bad choice

bad past= possible physical abuse or emotional
shady= possible rule-breaker or law breaker

Spend time with eacha little bit and put them into small situations where they need to find a hard answer. something like the "failure to launch"

 

Don't rush into a relation-ship just get to know em more and see which one(If any)Is right for you.

 

Spend more time with them, DON'T go on a date with them. Get to know them better, and make your choices based on that.

 

Bad Past is always a hit or miss. It can mean physical/verbal abuse or they'll treat you like an Angel. The second possiblity is more unlikely, but other than that I say if the ones you know are ones you could see yourself with, don't get to know another guy just to complicate things. Either pick the one with the Shady past, get to know the one you don't know better or just don't settle for any of them

 

Has spending more time with them to get to know them better ever crossed your mind? I suggest you consider it. You'd be surprised at how much it can resolve.

 

results:::

so far ive spent some time with all three, found out two of them the one i barely know at all is very different from me and we've decieded to be just friends, the other that i dont know at all, he moved away so that fixed itself it seems, and then the shady one, i think i might be happy with....i really hope it might work, but idk yet if hes the right one or not, all i know is that so far he has treated me like a queen O.O hes seriously sweet, kind, and hes portective so every time someone trys to be mean or stare at me he scares them off and acts like a prince or something, i think i really like him....thanks for the help!!!!! all of you!!!!! :glomp: :<3: :inlove: :woohoo: :luv:

 

Pretty cool that you like a guy, you dont even seem to know yet. I hope his name is not shady for you.

Your attitude generally is self-destructive.

 

It's called '"having a crush on someone".

 

Or having a rush ;)

Anyway this guy you chose(?) sounds the best so far, so I guess it's okay.

 

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Find out which one likes you back/which one you can have good conversations with.