I'm scared, I think I'm going to go crazy from all this...

Discussion in 'Help with Life' started by Hiro ✩, Aug 5, 2012.

  1. Hiro ✩ Guardian

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    It all started a few days ago. I've been staying up 'till about 2:30 AM on here, something I have never done. I was always tired and such, but it took about a week to escalate.

    At one point, I stopped eating. I don't know why, but I just did. My friends have all been gone this summer, so I haven't had much to do except be on here. I go to make something to eat, but I end up just going back to my room to sit here and be on KHV.

    Yesterday's been the worst day so far. My girlfriend dumped me yesterday because of a rumor that I wanted to simply get into her pants, then leave her. Yes, it's happened a couple of times, but I've never thought of leaving her. Her cousin's the only one supporting me, and I don't know what to do, because frankly, my parents just keep pointing out my flaws every freaking time I mess up. School's starting up next month, and I've fallen behind on credits. This is way more than I can cope with right now. What do I do?
     
  2. NYAN CAT =^_^= Destiny Islands Resident

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    ​I think that this girlfriend issue is really slowing you down. My suggestion would be to just distance yourself for a while and work on some personal things.
    As for the sleeping and eating issues, its not healthy or normal. Although I have done this for the past month or so.
    I think that maybe your parents expect more from you and are pointing out the little things you do, just to help you realize what you are doing.

    I just think that for a while you focus yourself on you and school. Yes you can socialize with friends and stuff but, maybe the girlfriend thing is just too much for you to handle at the moment.
     
  3. pompom Merlin's Housekeeper

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    If this girl dumped you from a silly rumour then she's not worth it. If she really loved you she would of trusted you. But she didn't.
    She's not worth it.

    You need to keep eating and going to bed earlier. Staying up late is only going to make you feel worse; same with the eating. Eating and sleeping will give you everything that you need to be healthy unless it's junk and if you skip food and sleep you won't get the vitamins and energy that you need to cope and it will help you so much more in school too.

    I think your parents are pointing your negatives because they're a little worried about you. That's all. But if you eat, sleep and study and remove this I'm sorry- this very silly girl from your life. They're leave you alone.

    Keep in contact with friends because they'll keep you happy because they know how and each day try and slowly distance yourself from this girl, but as said before she doesn't sound like she was worth it. Or worth the trouble.
     
  4. aiight Traverse Town Homebody

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    you just gotta lay back and take a relaxed approach to the situation bro. the girlfriend prob? forget about her. if she would dump you over something as stupid as a 'rumor' then you're better off without her. you're better than her so it's better you guys are apart. and your parents pointing out all your flaws? doesn't matter. ive been through that part of life and im still going through it but you just gotta take it in stride. there comes a point where you realize that your life is to be lived how you want to live it and no matter how much somebody points out your supposed 'flaws' only what you think of yourself, not others pointing out your failures, is what true happiness is. hope everything goes good bud!