I'm about 5 seconds away from killing someone

At the high school I attend, we have all sorts of kids. Some are nice, some are mean, some are just plain a-holes. And then, there's this one kid. We see each other at lunch, and that's all. Well, even though we only have 30 minutes for lunch, he' managed to make my life hell since day 1. He's bi, I'm not. He has the delusion that I only have eyes for him, which leads to some very mature situations. He humps me and gets his jizz all over my rear end. He gropes both my genitals and my butt, he askes me for oral sex, and today, he crossed the line. He slammed me into the wall and made out with me. He took away what should be a cherished moment from me, on the delusion that our so-called "relationship" had reached second base. I've tried EVERYTHING. Telling on him, yelling, cussing, beating him senseless, nothing works. I'm at my wit's end, KH-V. If he doesn't lay off soon, I Don't know what I'll do.

 

You've tried everything practical, yes. In which case it's not a matter of trying something differently, but a matter of trying harder. If you've already told people, tell more people. Make a scene. Tell the teachers, counsellors, etc. The point is to make as much of an effort as possible, and let others know that such an effort is being made. That way, when you go further with the other options, such as beating him senseless, you'll have significantly more support.

Have you properly explained to him that you don't like him in that way?

 

Multiple times. But his skull is apparently too thick, or else all his blood is going to his nether regions and he can't process the thought, because it hasn't stopped him.

 

That is serious sexual harassment and depending on how old he is, he can get in deep trouble for that. Go to several Guidance Counselors and teachers, if they don't do anything, see if your parents will press charges, because that is ****ed up and he needs to be put away.

 

exactly what i was going to say.

 

I would do what Misty said. That is seriously f***ed up. He needs to know that what he's doing is sick and wrong.

 

I could arrange an... accident of sorts.

Do you have any witnesses to this? If so then you could get this kid arrested and then he'd finally be off of your back.

 

Trust me, charges will be pressed if he pushes this any further. Since he does this at lunchtime, witnesses are abundant. Sad thing is, about half take his side that we're in love. The other half don't care either way, as long as they get a show.

 

What about your friends? Couldn't they help you out?

 

I wish. We have two different lunchtimes, and they have theirs before mine. So, when I say it's me against the world, I'm not lying.

 

Damn, well I wish you luck with all this. Because I only have two other suggestions to this: Kill him, or move. And I don't think either of those are possible for you at the moment.

 

What is it exactly that you need help with? You seem to have tried everything, and you're prepared to press charges and the like, so it looks like you have most things set out.

I'd say the important thing is making an effort to get it to stop. If something doesn't work, try harder. So if telling a teacher doesn't work, tell the principal, for example.

Also, killing him is a very bad idea. On the off-chance you decided to go down that route, just breaking a bone would be enough. If you felt like being particularly extreme, spinal damage would be sufficient too. Although those probably aren't good ideas either. If you harm him, probably drawing the line at broken limbs is the best bet. (Harming him is not the preferable way of dealing with it.)

 

Isn't harming anybody pretty much illegal?

 

So is sexual harassment. There have been ample witnesses to the other boy's behaviour, so it'd be fairly believable for Cryoshell to say, "Oh, he tried to sexually assault me, so I acted in self defence." No one would question whether he was actually assaulted that time or not, as it has been witnessed before. If he's made efforts to get the other boy to stop already, then that only reinforces his case. Yes, it'd be difficult to get away with killing him (although if you pushed him down stairs...), but it'd be easy enough to severely hurt the guy.

NOTE: I'm not endorsing breaking the law. I'm letting Cryoshell know that he has the right of self defence, and in the circumstances, no one would judge him for exerting it.

 

Thanks for all the advice. Part of me just felt like letting this out before it boiled over at the wrong time, so I felt like doing this among friends.

 

Ah, okay. So you were looking for a sympathetic ear.

Fair enough. You shouldn't have to endure his attentions if you already refused him.

Is/was he your friend?

 

For a time. About the first three weeks of school, actually.

 

Well, my first suggestion would be to obviously get a guidance counselor.

But, as I have previously been a knowledge-glutton and practitioner of martial artistry, I can tell you a few things to keep in mind when "beating him senseless".
I do not wish to encourage this, and I'd prefer if you go with my first suggestion, but if things get out of hand, and you wish to defend yourself, and deliver the message fluently without causing major damage to him, then here are a few tips:

- Keep your hands up, your rear hand blocking your face in case if he wants to make contact with your lips.
-A soft jab(quick punch) and a cross(harder punch) should do if he is in close range
-With a considerable amount of energy, something to consider if he is really trying to get into contact with any area is to uppercut to his stomach, and as I said with a considerable amount of energy, remember you do not want to damage him, but allow him to have some sort of pain, in which you can escape. If he tries to get any authority against you, you can explain your case and they'll completely understand it was out of self-defense.

EDIT: a simple kick when he is down should be good, therefore he is on the ground and you have enough time to run.
Only resort to my horrible advice if things get out hand, please. :) Hope it helps, anyhow.