I don't really know what to say I just. I think I'm losing it. I believe I'm bi-polar and now I hear news that the one girl I like found someone and fell head over heels for and I think I'm giving up romance or anything really I mean really this is the 4th girl that I've liked that basically rejected me (2 taken , 1 is more into girls, 1 likes someone they have only met once) I mean how the ****? why do i get the worst luck. and a whole other host of problems I mean if I wasn't too weak-willed to take my own life i would be dead by now but I'm too weak and pitiful to do it. any advice or anything? I just think I'm at the end of my rope and should let go.
Firstly: Have some more confidence in yourself. Look at it like this. You claim to be weak-willed and pitiful, but it takes quite a bit of courage to actually ASK for help. So you've achieved that. Not as pitiful as you think. Secondly: Well i know where you're coming from with this, but yeah i don't really have any advice. All i did was really wait it out and things seem better now..maybe you'll have similar luck? Just hang in there man.
I may not be very good with advice, but life will always get better, even if it is only for a moment, embrace it, your still here, which means you have something or someone to live for, i have faced nearly the same things as you, and im lucky my parents caught me before i drank the metho (it was all i had) but then as we think about it, we all have something to live for, whether it be family, friends, or even a special someone, there will always be there for you it takes a true spirited person to ask for help instead of wallowing in self misery, and i know for a fact, nearly everyone on here will be willing to help you with your romance, dont give up mate, seriously, without love and laughter, this world is just too sad, so laugh like you've never laughed before, show everyone the love your capable of, and live life to the fullest :D i hope ive helped
If you truly believe you are bi-polar, seek help. There is plenty of medication and therapists who can help you. You shouldn't just let that run rampant. Love is never, ever easy. You are at a stage in your life where a lot of people are going to be finding love and it'll feel like you're left behind. But you have to remember that everyone goes at a different pace. If someone's happy now, it's just because they've struggled earlier. Someday you wil find someone, and that day may not be today. But that day will come, all you have to do is look forward to it. There is always tommorow. Do not kill yourself. That is the stupidest action any human being could do. You have been given one life, wherever you believe it came from is irrelevant. You have something that is valuable, and unique. Do not waste it. Cherish it. That's all I can say.
I never had anyone till i was 17 , and they lasted less than a week, it isnt more of luck its where you are, I will admit that some places have qoutes for each certain city or country, it might not be true, but thats how it is done, You may have it hard on you because maybe people don't take the time like they should if you want someone to talk too sometime I am here if you want; I know the bi polar thing I have it myself all i have to say is keep it where you are and keep going, Go outside and try to walk around the mall or places where people would go you can relate too, try to stand out but at a point it shows your very bold onto talking to someone cause people i bet would appreciate that as well, Don't get upset you have more than a whole life to tell whether it is the right person or not, if you like them its best to keep it to talk but maybe their not meant cause if you break the natural tides sometimes, it can cause more harm than good, I know its hard just talk to a lot of people you may be interested in as a close friend I can talk to you whenever you want, don't worry about it, I hope all goes well man; Keep going , your going the right way , don't let crushes play your life away, you're better than that.
I would go see a doctor if you think you are bi-polar, then you can get it diagnosed or it'll be the first step to being happier. As for love, don't worry, I know how you feel but just remember, you will find someone so I wouldn't beat yourself up about it. Don't blame it on yourself, all you need to do is be patient and the right person will come. Love is horrible at times so you should try to occupy your mind with better things just to try and take your mind off this girl. And please, don't kill yourself, think of all the people you'll leave behind, there are better ways of dealing with sadness. When you do feel low just do whatever it takes to make you happy, ask yourself what would it take and do it. It may be watching a comedy with popcorn or meeting up with friends, I don't know but it does help.
You should go see a doctor about that bipolar thing you have there. If it goes rampant, well, you'd do some pretty stupid things; may it be from depression or ecstasy. I'm probably pretty late, and you probably already got the message, but suicide is stupid. Actually, in a sense, it's sometimes selfish. I'm not as suicidal as I may act, but I'm tempted to do so; what holds me back are my friends and family (and my dog, haha!). As mushy as it sounds, it's true. While this may be a bipolar thing, there's a way around that. Before you attempt to kill yourself or something, seek help from a professional first, then focus on your other problems. Your health comes first and what you have is probably affecting your pattern of thinking. You need a clear mind. The clear mind is so you can relax and reflect on the happy things in life (aka, meditate, not that I do that). Just take it easy. Life isn't a roller coaster as they say. It's just stairs, and sometimes, we go two or three steps at a time or slip up, but in the end, we always get back up and keep going up. Point is, you shouldn't make rash decisions like that. Just take it step by step. I cannot lie to you, and I'm sorry, but if you didn't tell her, you missed your chance. But that also means that she missed her chance. Then, maybe, you two would end up together, somehow. Hope can be a good thing and a bad thing. A good thing because hanging on is something that keeps us here. A bad thing because, while hoping, we can get hurt. So while you hold onto that hope, that maybe you two will be together, you already have to be asking yourself when you're going to let go. Ironically, hope can bind us and prevents us from living our life. If you do let go of the hope of ever being with her, one failure shouldn't discourage you from loving again. Loving is inevitable, and you have to admit, it's pretty pointless to if it's inevitable. You should try to stop yourself. I've seen so many real life love stories. You don't have to be special for the world to have a love story that ends well. If you're true to yourself, someone will see the specialty and uniqueness of, well, you and eventually love you. Love is a strange thing but that never stopped much people. And you're a person. So, main points: -See a doctor. -Take life easy. -Pretty much meditate; think of what makes you happy. -Hope can be cruel; know when to let go of it. -Possibilities are endless. I'm not sure if this helps, but, if you're too bothered by your own problems, take a moment and think of the people who suffer more. Like those who actually outlived everyone they knew and loved. Or perhaps those who have no way around poverty. The world is small enough to be linked somehow. I'm sorry this is so looong. D: I just want to help, and I think I went overboard...
well I have almoste the same problems for almost 3 years now. All the girls I fall in love or belive that I`m in love for her, are either lesbians or see me only as a realy good friend. But that doesn`t mean that I have anything against homosexuals, bisexuals or what ever. I`ve got more homo- and bi-sexual friends than hetero so I don`t realy care. But my last relationship was 2 years ago and since then I fell in love in 2 diffrent girls. One I`ve sad what I felt for her and she recejected me and the other doesn`t know it yet. And sometimes I say exactly the same things to me as you but I`m still here because without my friends I couldn`t exisct. And when I think of my friends, then I feel so lucky and can`t wait to see them back. So at the moment I enjoy the life exactly as it is because you`ll never know what could happen in the next moment. Maybe you go to bed and never wake up again. Maybe you go to downtown and something horrible happend. So that`s the reason why I enjoy my life. I enjoy it with my friends every moment when I can, and I enjoy every single second, because you never know what happen next. So I sugest to you enjoy the life. And don`t think to negative There will be a moment or for a while realy good things happen. So always look forward and never back.
