Well, life and my ex. I still kinda like him, but I don't show it. Anyways, he found this song I wrote about him like 2 months ago, and he decides to message me on MySpace. The message said, "Okay listen. I'll talk to you as your friend, but I don't wanna get back together. So stop writing these ****ing songs asking me to get back together with you. It's not gonna happen, Summer, and if you keep writing stuff like that, I won't even be your friend. By the way, don't talk to me in front of my friends." And I pretty much doubt that he'll ever come and talk to me. Also, I'm feeling depressed a lot. I'm okay when I'm around my friends, but when I'm away from them, I feel like ****. My family doesn't make it any better. My mom calls me a ****, *****, whore, and skank everyday. Most of the time, it's because I either don't put on make-up before I go to school or I don't wear what she wants me to wear. She also calls some of my friends bad influences because they're "emo". Seriously, none of my friends are emo, and they're never bad influences. They're just being themselves. Unless, you know, we're talking about the fake friends. Some of my "friends" yell at me over the tiniest things. My "friend", Emily, called me an ugly ***** because I wouldn't let her copy off me. Another "friend", Megan, yelled at me and called me fat while I was spotting Kayla in weightlifting. And you know what she was doing? Nothing. She sat on her lazy ass while everyone else lifted weights. Seriously, I'm sick of it. I just wanna scream out, "LET ME LIVE MY OWN DAMN LIFE!"
(1) Your ex is obviously an inconsiderate prick. You're better off without that kind of discouraging people. (2) Then try to be with your friends as much as you can. Go to the movies or something, maybe on a trip? (3) While your mom doesn't have the right to call you names, I share her opinion on the make-up part. You really don't need make-up in school. In many cases it ends up making you look worse. Natural beauty for the win. Also, it saves time and money if you just don't bother with it. Because why would you really? (4) Fake friends can be annoying, but in the end you're the one that can gloat. Not letting her copy off you is more inconvenient to her than it is to you. Just don't fall into their trap and think you're their friend (although I think you will see through it).
summer the situation is getting more and more serious and no one there seems to be helping you.what i suggest is to move away from your life because it's not getting better and your just clinging onto a false hope that something will happen.Basically all i'm saying is to go live with another relative away from your mother and your so called friends at your school.Just break away from them and move away.easy as that.nothing more to it.You'll be much happier in the long run.
I'm just saying that your ex is a total ******. seriously, you shouldn't really even like him at all anymore if he is going to treat you that way. And these so called "friends" sound like stuck up ****s. All i can really say is be with who you really like to be with.
Actually, my mom yells at me for NOT wearing make-up. She said that's one of the reasons none of the guys at school like me. I can't move away. My mamaw already has to take care of my baby cousins when their mom is at work, and my aunt has to take care of my papaw (he has Alzheimer's). I'll just have to suffer.
Thats absolutely ridiculous advice and you've probably made her feel worse D: She has true friends like she stated and running away from home is a bad step, trust me >_> Dont be such a pessimist. What? Thats ridiculous. Tell her you'd rather save money and be naturally beautiful. And add in that people at school have said you look better without ;) Life doesnt seem too bad for you <3 I know it may seem like the end of the world but fake friends give up eventually and your ex will let it drop in the end <3
Um, if I told her that, she'd yell at me and call me a ****. Again. Also, I'm over my ex now, but the girl he likes now is two-faced. She keeps messaging me and telling me, "Oh I don't like Wes. You don't have to worry." That little liar. My cousin said she told her she liked him, and I really, really trust my cousin. I seriously don't know who to trust anymore...
Oops, guess I misread. In that case I fully support your complaints. Your mom has no right to put you down like that.
I see. Well this may sound stupid but...try not to listen to it or heed it. You know, one side in, other side out. It's not easy but it's one way to escape the negativity.
I try, but...*sigh* I don't know. All I know is some of my friends feel awful when I cry at school, while the rest just call me a crybaby.
Here's what you need to do: - Hold your head up high and don't shed a tear. If your friends call you a name say their immature for calling you that. Once they see how determined you are they won't mess with you anymore. And if they do you need to leave them behind. If being around them makes you feel worse than before you entered a conversation with them then just leave. You're too good for them. - Tell your mom you don't need a boyfriend to make you happy and if the guys at school don't like your face now, they sure will like it in a couple years later when all of the other girls wearing obscene amounts of makeup will have shriveled faces. Also tell her if a guy likes you only for your appearance, then he's not the guy you want to be with.
