ok please i need someone to lend me a hand here. i made a big mistake of telling my best friend off and now i feel like a jerk and i dont want to hurt her again. someone please tell me what i should do im a complete wreck!
We're going to need a background story in order to better understand and help you. Why did you tell her off? What led up to it?
i have anger issues sometimes i say things and do things without any good reason for it as for what led up to it i dont think she would want me posting it
As long as it's only being used to receive help, I don't personally see a problem with it. I would ask her first, though. However, to do that, I would first apologize and let her know you're trying to get some help with your anger.
well she wont even talk to me. i mean she has an acount on this website but i dont think she would even listen to me
Apologise. You know you've done wring by the sounds of your guilt at getting angry. It'd fine to get angry, and usually we take it out on people close to us because we trust them with that side of ourselves. May not always be pleasant but it's a sign of trust. But you need to take responsibility for it. Say your sorry and that you didn't mean to hurt her, clearly you are desperate and seeking advice from us meaning you care about how she feels. Just be sincere honest and don't start blaming her for taking it the wrong way or anything. Just say sorry and ask if your still friends. Good luck.
Regardless, just try to talk to her. You won't know if she'll listen or not if you don't even attempt. It takes courage for people to be able to admit when they made mistakes.
