I really need some help...

Discussion in 'Help with Life' started by The Lone Wanderer, Nov 8, 2008.

  1. The Lone Wanderer Twilight Town Denizen

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    Okay, I need some major help. There is this girl in my life that I simply can’t stand anymore. Well I’ll start from the beginning.

    She isn’t my friend at all, nor could I ever think she is. She thinks I am her friend. She never was liked or wanted in my school for years and has a lot of problems. She started dating this 19 year old guy I know. I didn’t introduce them or anything. So, he starts some absurd relationship with her. He buys her a collar and a leash, yeah, a freaking leash. She also thinks she’s a cat. Now, if anyone else thought that, I’d honestly not care, but she is far from being a cat. She meows like every 5 seconds and thinks it’s cute or funny, and it pisses me off. She is really just his pet, but she thinks he’s her boyfriend.

    I really can’t stand the fact that they make out like a foot away from me. I really want to tell her off but I don’t know how exactly. I try to be nice to her and it just results in this burning hatred for her and it makes me want to tear off someone’s limbs.

    It’s tearing me apart to deal with this every weekend. I’m actually friends with the guy, and I can tolerate him, but she is just ruining my life. It’s causing me too much stress.

    Any advice on what to do?

    *This took a lot of effort to write without curses as every other word. It really gets to me.*
     
  2. Dredica SNES was the best.

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    Well I have never been in this situation lol. You should tell her off, but not too meanly, or the guy might not be your friend anymore.
     
  3. The Lone Wanderer Twilight Town Denizen

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    Well his friendship means something to me but its not my top priority. I forgot to mention I go to school with this girl and she acts similarly in school. It really gets to me. Telling her off is what I thought of, I just can't figure out what to say or how to say it.
     
  4. Dredica SNES was the best.

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    Well, it depends on your gender in realility lol. I'm a guy and this is what I would say: Shut the f**k up! You are not a God damn cat! (then after that just call her like ****** and sh*t I guess :\)
     
  5. Inasuma "pumpkin"

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    Say this:

    "Look, you're a tool, he's a ****, stop thinking you're some kinda queen. He only does this with you to make himself look manly, but this is only to compensate for the fact he's gay. And you're just a **** who thinks she's badass 'cause she's making out with some guy who is some kind of icon. Stop lying to yourselves and go to McDonalds like everyone else, you commies."

    .... actually that might get you killed... o_o
     
  6. Chevalier Crystal Princess

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    lol XD.

    Just try to be frank with her, tell her it's disturbing and that it incomodates you.
     
  7. Sorcerer_Jenkins Twilight Town Denizen

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    sounds like you like her, and basically you are jealous that she isn't your pet.
     
  8. The Lone Wanderer Twilight Town Denizen

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    Actually, he is bi....


    Uhhh.... no I really don't like her at all. I like a girl already, but asking her out is a problem on its own...

    Anyway, I am a guy, just so you know.
     
  9. Sorcerer_Jenkins Twilight Town Denizen

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    so why would you have a prob if your buddy is making out with her?
    let her have her fun, if she's the school reject, then she should be lucky to have someone to make-out with. either way i don't care. but you still sound like your jealous.
     
  10. The Lone Wanderer Twilight Town Denizen

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    Its not that im jealous or anything, I just don't want you making out with your boyfriend when you are a foot away from me. Its really uncomfortable.
     
  11. Sorcerer_Jenkins Twilight Town Denizen

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    ima dude. i don't have a BF. srry. neways..... then you tells your buddy that you'd like not to c them make-out. if your pal is a good friend he'll tease ya then make sure he isn't snuggling with her in front of yeah. have fun!
     
  12. P E A N U T ~*~Never Surrender~*~

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    I've had bad experiences with weird people like that. Whoa, I thought I had it bad! I would probably find a way to gently tell her off (if that's possible )

    =/
     
  13. robert the yogurt Traverse Town Homebody

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    80 This is a tight situation...If YOU can't get her to keep away from you in a nice way ask her owner or boyfriend or whatever to ask her.