Yeah... very unusual that I tell my fights on this website... Anyways, it's between my siblings. I don't know what I do or say but they get pissed off at me. Not sure why but it hurts me. And one of them comes at me and hits me hard. Whatever I say seems to get them mad at me and start cursing me, telling me how stupid I am. They always get to me, whatever they throw at me affects me, but I won't show them but bite my lips and look at them with a " I don't care" look. But...I don't want the same incident I had at school. Month ago, I had an arguement with my sister and my sister swore at me and hoped I was dead. So...all morning I thought about my sister, what she said affected me. Stabbed me in the heart. I hope my sisters realize what they're saying to me, they're lucky I don't come at them and punch them in the face. So, then my teacher started talking about bullying, and it brought me to the memory of the hitting and name calling which got me teary. Kind of hard to hold my tears...it doesn't happen much. I keep my tears inside. Hate crying. Then, during French class one of my classmates annoyed me alot and I bursted out, throwiing my pencil at him and pushing my desk forward, dropped to my knees and cried like a fricken baby. Luckily, I stopped when I went to the Retreat Room and calmed down. Went to the office, never told my story but saying it was a sister problem, teacher called home and I dealt with it there. But...it's whatever I say or do, they seem to give me crap. So I'm asking, to learn how to say something or not. I can't keep my mouth shut when they say something to me or ask me. The hell with it I'd cut my lip off to stop it all. I want to learn to quit saying "just kidding" to my sister's, or some stupid comment. Also...how do I defend myself from getting a fricken punch on my face or stomach. I don't want to hurt them...but I want to... I feel the need to not, there are serious consequences if I even punch one. And my friends, I seem to be ignored. Whatever they ask me I always give them a negative...it seems to affect them. But I can't stop from saying the real truth.
how old are you? if they are younger then you, they just want love. you give it to them, but they don't see it. i have the same problem! (minus the language) but i can't figure my bro. out. so i kinda either hit back, talk back, or ignore it. you should have a talk with them and keep a straight face. get with your parents and figure it out. on the self defense thing, when they go at you like that, give em Heck and show them who they are messing with. it sounds like a respect/love deal. same prob here. EDIT: contact me for further, i kinda am fogged here
How old are you and how old are your sisters who are doing this to you? It seems you are really at the end of your rope and are getting very easily upset and I definitely can understand why. That is not an easy situation to deal with. If you can give us a bit more information to work with such as your ages and also if you can talk to your parents at all about it, then maybe we can give you some pointers. In the end, which sister alone do you feel would be easier to talk to, because I think you may have to approach one at a time and hope to get through to one who then might be able to tone the other down. Hang in there and please do respond here.
Well, if they are young, they sometimes want to be like you: caring, independent, and free thinker. I on the other hand has an older brother that annoies the crap out of me. Anyway, hang in there and love them.
I'm in the middle. One is 11 and the other is 18. I'm 13. I don't tell me parents about anything much, I keep it all mostly to myself. My parents know alittle of this, and they do the best that they can like...trying to break a fight. They tell me to split if I fight with someone, it kind of helps.
but, why are most of the time on a constant fight? this should be untolerable, i mean, it's not fair for you, it's getting you stressed, and that is not good in any case. you need to find a way to fix this pronto.
You should really talk to them and let them know what they're actually doing to you. I know that it won't be an easy conversation, but I really think it needs to be done. (Yes, this is from a random person over the internet...but from what you say, I really do think you need to tell them how you're feeling).
Okay first off do you know WHY you fight with them if its got a reasong there should be a straight forward answer to your problem if not Then talk with them ASK whats wrong with them if they ignore you try to MAKE them tell you without hurting them.
