Alright I had this dream last night, it was a dream about my first girlfriend, I was able to remember it like it was yesterday, like it happened before, She told me that she wished things were different that we could've been together longer, since she moved away and stuff. Then I woke up and then had another dream of her, this time her and I were together like boyfriend/girlfriend and we were happy and we just talked and talked about our accomplishments, then I woke up again and went back to sleep only to have yet another dream of her, but it was about how she wanted to be with me again and everything that bothered her, and the weird part is in that dream I was like able to pause it and then all of a sudden I seen an Assassin's Creed Brotherhood pause menu come up and I went to DNA and all of a sudden the dream restarted itself but this time it was telling me a story of how we got together and how we felt when we had to break up because of the move, and then I was able to relive that scenario as well as the new one where her and I got back together. Now my question is......What the freak is going on? lol
Sorry for the breakup. Anyway, since you're having dreams about her, the only logical reason is that you're still thinking of her. Do you want to get back together with her?
Honestly I really do want to get back together with her oh and forgot to mention this was like 5 years ago and we talked like 2 yrs ago but after that nothing, we just couldn't keep in contact due to cell phone issues and myspace bull so yeah it got hard.
Dreams are a way into your subconcious thoughts, usually when you dream of an ex it means you are missing them or you just miss the close connection of having a girlfriend. The reason it's coming up now, I don't know but I can tell you that your mind may be playing out what you want to happen in your sleep as a sort of comfort to make yourself feel better.
Makes sense to me, I just feel that it's strange that I'm having all of these memories in my dreams like we broke up only because she moved and we didnt really want to so maybe it's the fact we never had closure or something
This sounds quite likely, the lack of closure is obviously troubling you at the moment, maybe somethnig recently happened to you that made you think of her and then pine for her company. The dream is your brain sorting out what has happened in the day so you most likely had something that made you think of her and now your wishing for a different scenario where you are together. Either way, you are missing her, is there any way you can contact her? Maybe talknig to her may help a bit.
Yeah I can agree with that but as for contacting her I really can't at the moment since Myspace isn't going to work cuz she hasnt been on it in a long time and she doesnt have a Facebook, although her brother has a Facebook but I don't think I wanna try to ask him to give me a way to talk to her.
Well, in my very unknowledgeable opinion, I gotta say it's that you're basically just missing her. I mean, if having three dreams about the same person and you guys being together doesn't mean something, than I'm a monkey's uncle. You sure there really isn't anyway for you to just get in contact with her and talk? Maybe like Facebook or MSN chat or something? She could always get a facebook
I thought about that I could try to ask her brother but not sure of what the results might be, him and I talked a little bit but not ure if he would help.
Ienzo has you covered for why your ex is appearing in your dreams, the Assassin's Creed menu appeared because you've been playing too much Assassin's Creed. Not getting closure can really wane at the heart, a small example is the feeling you get after a fight with someone. Until you've worked things over and made up you don't feel right and will probably keep thinking about that person. Cases like yours where it's been years without closure are much more intense, one of the worst sentences is "What could have been." Gives you nausea just reading it.. But yeah, that explains your dream. Sorry man, trying to get in contact might help you out, but after it being so long we can't predict the outcome.
Yeah that seems like it would be best to find a way to contact her and yeah I kinda played Assassin's Creed alot this week for some reason lol
There is no shame in that my brother, ease your dream filled mind by running people over with a horse, it's soothing. There is always written letters or getting her phone number from her brother possibly?
I actually let my assassins kill everybody while I kill civilians lol I kept getting bored so I improvised lol. Yeah imma try to talk to her brother and everything and see if I can try to talk to her and just reminisce over memories. The only thing that's bugging me is that dream it's like it was a message because I hardly ever get those kinds of dreams.
I have the same, except the total opposite, I desire closure for a relationship that ended terribly and sometimes he pops up in my dreams in a sort of way of us getting back together which I don't want at all (I more want just the feeling of closeness). You may keep having these dreams, maybe not on consecutive nights but they will probably still keep popping up until you get that closure or find another way to resolve it like meet someone else who puts your pining heart at ease.
You're basically experiencing two things at once: A strong love and want to get back together with her, and a strong love and want to play Assassin's Creed. At one point in your life, you must choose one. Go with Assassin's Creed
1. Waaaaaayyyyyy to much ACB my friend. No offense, that is. I have dreams about FF Dissida and my life mixed together sometimes. >.> 2. I recommend a dream book. 3. You have a special mind.
Ienzo has covered it, and it is simply a longing. However, I don't believe that simply talking to her will make the dreams change or you two get back together. To you it's a lost love, which will of course make you long for her. But by talking to her, you won't long any less, necessarily. If you were to get back together, you would still dream of her, due to distance and of course, love. If you want closure, go talk to her. If you want the dreams to disappear, let time work it's magic, that's all it takes. Also, try to do stuff that takes your mind off of her, not necessarily Assassin's Creed, but something else.
Yeah don't worry about Assassin's Creed lol turns out my sister was playing it while i was sleeping lol. I could have a special mind I mean I'm not even depressed thinking about this im just searching for answers on how to go about this dream. Ienzo I can tell you this, when I had spent time with a girl I was in love with and she loved me back, she went insane because she had a boyfriend and couldn't choose so in the end i did what i had to do for her sake so I also know what you mean and I know if I just wait I'll find the right girl.
Alright here's an update on this situation.....I couldn't get in contact with the girl at all lol so I just went on from the dream and everything else so things are normal from there, except one thing but that'll be discussed another time if it gets unstable I should say.
