i have just been feeling so sad lately

hey guys it's me and i have been gone for a while so anyway

i have just been feeling so sad lately it's just that whatever makes me happy or laugh doesn't anymore or anything for that matter. Nothing has happened to me and i'm not emo i'm really a cheerful person but i just don't know what happened.
i don't know if this helps but i'm a 14 year old boy in 8th grade and no i'm not to the point of killing my self and i don't think i will be.

 

Well I was gonna try to make you feel worse. I'm very bored right now and I just wanted to be a jerk but I know what that's like. What I did was I found a girl on this site and I really got to know her. (my sig explains it) Her and I are still very close. We had a long distance relationship but it didn't work. So I ended up finding somebody else. And since then I didn't feel ****** anymore. But just be careful about girls. Sometimes they can hurt more than they help.

 

And remember that you can hurt them just as bad.

Honestly, I don't think getting a girl should be a top priority right now, be it in real life or online. If you're not feeling good about yourself for whatever reason, it's not easy to give affection to anyone else either. Casual dating is fine, if you need something to distract yourself, but getting a steady girlfriend isn't a good idea (and it could make the girl feel like she's merely a confidence boost to you).

If nothing specific has happened to you, then the feeling of sadness should pass eventually. I'm not sure if there's too much you can do about it, apart from thinking what might be the root of the sadness. It might not be obvious, but if you can figure it out, it could help you get over it. Apart from that, try doing things that normally cheer you up, even if it doesn't help immediately.

I hope you start feeling better soon ;3

 

Perhaps, you might be going through puberty? It happens generally between about 10 and 15...

The same thing is happening to me. "Moodiness".

 

Your not alone

I have made the biggest mistake which caused the staff to get involved.And I may have messed up friendships,my date life, and me even being online.But I would like to tell u that thinking of kiling urself is never a good idea. Cause that's only running away from ur problems. And there kids out that that don't even have the stuff u and I may hae. But I don't think they are giving up hope. And just remember giving up hope u got to realize that there are people that may have it 2x or 2000x worse than you. So instead of feeling sad be happy that even have a cpu, or laptop, or watever to even posts this up.But I'm not saying that u can't feel sad.And I may not no u, but ur thoughts about killing urself is unacceptable.