I finally told him I love him.

Discussion in 'Help with Life' started by Shiki, Jan 7, 2010.

  1. Shiki my waifu is better than yours, thanks

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    I did. I finally told the 24 year old guy I loved him. And he said he's fine with it.....I wonder if he loves me too? I'll ask him.

    But I told him that every time he was hurt it had hurt me too.

    Such as when he was stabbed last year. I told him I literally cried when I got the news. I told him it had made me wonder if I'd ever see him again. I just wanted to know he was okay but he was in surgery. I soon found he was okay. I was so happy then but I still cried thinking about him being stabbed.

    If any of you were wondering, I love Neku. Or Jestin to some of you. Please wish me luck.
     
  2. kitty_mckechnie I want to hug you like big fuzzy Siberian bear!

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    And why do you need help?
     
  3. Shiki my waifu is better than yours, thanks

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    I was just wondering if people had opinions and stuff.....
     
  4. Jayn

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    This makes me extremely nostalgic. I used to be best friends with him. xD I wonder if you're being serious or not. I can never tell these days. Either way, doesn't seem like you need much "Help with Life" so I don't think it was necessary to post this. But, um... Congatularions/good luck...?
     
  5. Legion Twilight Town Denizen

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    Why isn't this in the spamzone?
     
  6. Darkcloud Word of advice: Let the wookie win. He's Chuck N

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    I guess she's wondering if she's doing the right thing? Idk...
     
  7. Legion Twilight Town Denizen

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    It seems more like she just wanted people to know.
     
  8. Darkcloud Word of advice: Let the wookie win. He's Chuck N

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    Well, telling the person you care about that you have feelings for is reason to celebrate, I guess.
     
  9. Legion Twilight Town Denizen

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    Which is for the spamzone, not for a place that is designed to ask for advice.
     
  10. Darkcloud Word of advice: Let the wookie win. He's Chuck N

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    How often are things taken seriously in the spamzone, though?
     
  11. Legion Twilight Town Denizen

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    every so often. if she really wanted to be taken seriously, it could have been in her sig or something.
     
  12. Styx That's me inside your head.

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    It's here because she's asking for opinions, which is confirmation that she made the right choice, which is Help With Life. Period.
    Now back on-topic or I'll have your posts deleted.

    I take it that by love you mean more than being interested in an adventure. In that case...
    The guy's 24. I know that girls often dig guys that are slightly older, but don't expect the same thing from him. He probably has a job by now and is finding his way in the big world. He's in a very different environment already even if you share common interests. The last thing he needs is a girlfriend who's still in school. If I were him, I'd gently decline.
    EDIT: Okay, so you're 17. That means my point stands.

    Three cheers for you if everything works out. But that's a big if.
     
  13. Shiki my waifu is better than yours, thanks

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    He's actually living at home and without a job. But he is looking for one.....
     
  14. Styx That's me inside your head.

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    One thing I have to ask though: you know this dude in real life right?
     
  15. Shiki my waifu is better than yours, thanks

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    Enough to call him almost every night and text him every day right?
     
  16. Styx That's me inside your head.

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    But there is a distance between you?
    In that case it has a somewhat bigger chance of working out.
    In that case I'd just delay the eventual getting together thing long enough (i.e. until your environments are a little more...alike).
     
  17. Jayn

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    What about him makes you love him?
     
  18. kitty_mckechnie I want to hug you like big fuzzy Siberian bear!

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    We really can't say if you did the right thing or not since we don't anything between you two. Only you know. And if you're unsure whether or not it was right, then are you sure you do love him?

    Stating the obvious here, but beware of folk you meet on the internet, regardless if you think you know them.
     
  19. Peace and War Bianca, you minx!

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    You are very correct in this. I've known a lot of 'troubled' people on the internet, I myself was one such person.

    I attempted a cross seas relationship, always planning hoping that if we'd wait a few more years, I'd get money and go visit, try and get a job where she lives and live happily ever after together.
    Let me say that plans are never fullproof.
    Still I have no real regrets form the relationship, I gained a close friend, and learnt how to deal with my life better.
    Take each step day by day and discuss any concerns you have with him. The more you trust in him, the more he should trust in you. THe age gap will have some effect on how the realtionship goes. Don't think that age doesn't matter, because at the yound stage of life you're both in at the moment, everything is concerned with age.

    Look all I can really say is that as long as the relationship is two way, where you both care for each other, I wish the best of luck for you.
     
  20. khfreak123 Traverse Town Homebody

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    Aww! That sounds soo sweet. I think thats what you need to do... see how he feels