i don't know what to think...

okay so there's this guy.

we're church friends and i only see him at church. i guess i've known him for like 4 years. he's really nice, funny, and smart. i don't think i like him or anything but i think i'm starting to get an attraction. the BAD thing is that he's already liked all my close friends at church and like i guess things just end up bad for all of them. and also, i don't want to like him especially because he and my best friend (she goes to my church and school) had a relationship before. secondly, he makes moves... really quickly. so what do i say or do if he like asks me out?

what should i think, is he a jerk for liking me after like 4 of my friends? or should i give it a shot?

 

hm...tough call.

you might want to just try it, but before it gets serious, tell him the rules. show him who's boss.
(:

 

If I was a guy and I asked out Mish, I'd hope she'd say yes.

Btw, this isn't saying I'm going to ask her out XD

 

haha. ok, roxas...

anyways, i would give it a shot, though make it all very casual. then if things work out you can make it more official and serious. but until then, hang out with him as in an unofficial thing. good luck!

 

ooh, so you're cheating on me? i see how it is, roxas.


... just kidding.

but i agree with ~treah~

 

i personally would take it slow. maybe because i support courting more than dating. so like, hang out with him while you guys are with a group and dont say yes to being his gf until youre certain of his intentions and that it wont mess up your relationship with your friends (his exs).

 

If I were you I'd give it a shot but take it slowly. Don't let him control what happens. I to am in favour of a more romantic courtship thing. If he really cares then he will respect your feelings. Good luck!

 

Definitely have fun being young as long as you protect yourself. And I don't mean that way, though that's important when the time comes, but I mean just be cautious so you aren't taken advantage of. But if something could happen, go for it and have fun.