Just recently, I attacked my father, who bled a little bit as I struck his arm. We got over it... Or at least I am trying to. It was probably being taunted by people here that got me worked up and caused me to snap. I won't mention any names here, but I just wanted to talk to someone as the abuse began. Any idea what to do? I am left with nothing to do, and I keep coming back because nothing is living up to my expectations.
If the source of your distraught is because of members on this site, my first advice would be to get away from here? But then again you say that you really just want someone to talk to, which is more than reasonable for anyone. Is there anyone offline that you can confide in? Maybe that would be better, since they know you personally. If not, are there other ways to channel your frustrations? Perhaps listening to music, meditation recordings, et cetera? I know it generally helps me, but things work for different people. If ya wanna just talk im here dawg it ain't no thang. I hope things work out for you sir.
Crying helps me.... I mean that by the way. But seriously, If you need someone to talk to Llave and I are here, and I'll pray for you. Also, If i'm saying anything that offends you personally, please let me know.
Man, just stay off the internet. You are saying this is the source of your problems. The only thing to do is STAY OFF IT for a bit. Why wont you do that? Seriously. If you want some to talk to then talk to a friend face to face and not to someone over the internet. What do you want us people from the internet to do? Again if you want someone to talk to then talk to a close friend face to face personally so they can understand your emotions because you cant tell that through typing. Staying away from the internet is your ONE and ONLY option because that is the source of your problems but you still come back for some unknown reason. or your other option could be just ignoring them which is easier than staying off the internet... for me that is... I can't live without internet =P
This. The first step to fixing any problem is identifying the source of the problem. Once you know what that is it makes it easier to fix whatever it may be. If you know that people here stress you out to that extreme, then coming here is certainly not going to fix the problem, it's only going to make the problem worse. You have to be proactive if you are looking to fix whatever problems life gives you. You can't just go on the internet, tell people you have problems, and then expect them to go away, especially when you are telling your problems to the people on the website that is stressing you out.
I really have to agree with Miles here: if things are getting so bad, distance yourself from the problem for a while. Either stay away from the Spam Zone or just get off the forums in general. Heck, it might even be good for you to get some away time from your computer! If you need to talk, I'll do my best to be here. Just don't let it escalate further.
I do agree with miles but, considering the situation he could have found a nicer way to say it. Not that I'm dissing him or anything. It's just that the words may come off harsher than need be.
I had recommended to him before the he should take a break from the Internet along with some other people which is the source of his problems. It's just a bit irritating that he won't take some people's advice to help him. And he should know that nobody on KHvids is responsible for him hurting people and himself in the real world but the cuase of his stress. He makes threads like this but does really take people's advice. I wasn't being rough. Just being striaght forward on what should be done for this to get better. I just don't think it's fair blaming some khvids members for his actions.
Actually, I agree with Miles 120%. And I don't think there was anything wrong with his statement. The truth is, the internet is full of arrogant jerks (sorry to all the non arrogant jerks out there) and trolls. I don't know, it must be different for others, but I don't get worked up online. I don't take a lot of things to heart. And like Miles said, the best thing for you to do is stop coming onto KHV for a while, until you cool off. Seriously, why keep coming to a site where people are going to be jerks to you? You deserve better than that. Honestly, I thought KHV was a little better than that, but I guess not. Maybe you should talk to the staff to see if you could work things out. There's no reason to carry over things from online into real life. If it's that bad, and you don't want to talk to the staff, don't log on for a while. Go talk to a counselor or someone. If this kind of crap is seriously going on at KHV, I think it needs to stop. You guys there's a difference between jokingly having fun and hurting someone. I thought we were better than that here. I guess I was wrong.
