I seriously don't know what to do w/ my life anymore.. Lately, I've just been feeling tired and not having the energy that I did have before I barely have any fun anymore; cause none of my friends call me to go anywhere or try to make plans w/ me; cause they're 'busy' Everyone's changed and it's kinda sad that some people just humilate themselves just to be w/ the `in-crowd` at school, especially my graduating class. [am a freshman btw] I just got over this girl that I liked for a long time; and I'm moving onto a new one, but she doesn't wanna go out with anyone right now because she just broke up with her ex boyfriend days ago And I'm giving her space to chill; we still talk and stuff But she's ignoring me sometimes, idk why because I asked if she'd ever wanna go out and she said yes... School's a drag; sports and clubs after school? then you have to come home and do your homework? it's hard. I just miss the ways things used to be; all the people I don't talk to anymore, everyone's changing...wth
That happens in high school. Changes happen. You can't expect things not to change. Try making some new friends. I'm not saying ditch your old friends, but meet some new people. As for the girl you like, give her some space. I doubt she's thinking of a new relationship after she just broke up.
I used to feel like this. I know I'm like only 14 and I don't know much but from what I've gone through the sad truth is to... Get over it. If the people you used to hang out with want to be stupid to hang out with the "cool kids" at school then forget them and move on. Dwelling on things is not fun and it makes you depressed and want sugar and etc... You know it's times like these that you need to go out by yourself and do stuff. Personally I like to spend after school hours (when I'm not doing homework or playing a sport) playing video games, making AMVs, listening to music, or writing. I think you should have fun on your own for a while until someone smart enough comes over to see how much fun it is to be an individual. If that doesn't work then I'm pretty sure you'll find someone else to hang with.
I went through this in my first two years of high school.All I did was walk away.Walk away from your friends.Seriously it helped me and I became friends with better people.The people I hung out with in my first two years of high school,always ignored me and there was always drama.You have no idea how much I hated it.Just walk away from everything for a while and relax.I'm like you,I never go out.I'm already losing contact with my best friend.But all I can say is: That's high school for you.You don't want things to change but sadly it will.Meet new people.Just don't do everything at once.Don't go and join a club then a sport.You have to give yourself space.As for the girl,just give her some time before she's ready to start another relationship.When you're home by yourself,do what allisonlove90 said to do.Spend time by yourself.Write,listen to music,read or something else that would entertain you.
Thanks for the advice guys; it helps a lot. It's stupid that people change oh and the club meetings are only one mondays and thursdays lol
Its totally stupid. But it happens. I guess the ones we are closest to in the end are the ones who change the most.
When your not doing anything every single day. Life passes you by. You say your a freshmen right? I think your priority should come first then to be last. Make some plans for yourself, go to mall make new friends but keep the ones you have. Maybe like an socialite, that you could talk to. Also about that fitting in w/ the Cool ppl. Yes it is embarrising, thus who could blame someone that wants to have alittle attention. As for me, I'm cool & Popular thus everyone wants that. But anyways, try to do some things w/ other ppl. It'll let your self-esteem rise up again.
This seems to be a problem I have as well. Things just totally feel screwed, right? I agree with Vertigo Haven. This stuff mostly happens in high school. My advice would be hanging out with some new people. I won't lie, that's a tough thing to do. I'm still trying and I don't find myself lucky in that situation. We just have to look for the best and stay positive. The girl that you currently like is right for not going out with anyone yet. I mean she just had a break up, so defiantly give her a chance. If you find her ignoring you and acting really rude then just don't bother with her. The saying “I’m busy” seems like a total lie to me. I get that a lot too and it just really puts me at the top. Do you have at least one best friend to hang out with?
White Rook is right. I mean it's the whole reason the popular people end up being owned by the "dorks"
Thanks Mike. For the friend part? Idk, people changed a hell of a lot today then they were back in 5th grade? I just don't feel like going to school sometimes, due to some of the people I don't know who to talk to anymore, I talk to some upperclassmen cause they're kool and friendly but that's it?
high schools hard...thats how it was for me all i can say..is wait it out...do things that you like...take classes you like...and youll finds that like you for you as for the girl shes a girl and i hate to break it ya but they dont get easier hang in there bud
