Okay, so my (now ex) best friend and I broke friends because her other friend (who seriously clings to her) told her that she'd overheard me telling two of my other friends that ex-bff was all these things (I'm not gonna go into them though.) and I never said them! Oh, and she rounded it off nicely by saying I'd threatened to beat her up. I had never said any of this at all. So, a month passes and I'm happy. I've moved on and realized I don't need them in my life anymore, but they're in my college with me and I share some friends with them. This week however, ex-bff has been excluding me from the group, making comments about my appearence and my family, asking me why I haven't had a boyfriend since my ex and then saying it's because "I'm more concerned with writing, walking my dog and playing Final Fantasy" that he broke up with me and everytime I go to talk to one of my friends she'll call them over to her and when they say "Hold on" she just goes "It's IMPORTANT and I need to talk to you about it NOW!" So... what should I do? PS: I've known this girl since I was 3.
So let me get it short(correct, if I'm wrong): -You have a best friend, who is now 'ex' -There is a girl, who tells your best friend false information about you -Your best friend is turned against you So the problem is of course not you, not your best friend(who is ex, right). The problem is of course this 3rd person. The 'other friend'. I cannot help with anything else. I'm just pointing out, who is the one to blame. It is not you nor your best friend. It's the 'other friend'! Though the best friend must be easily fooled, if she doesn't need any backup data for the claims of the 'other friend'.
