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  1. Yozora Archer

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    I regret posting this here.

    Lol
     
  2. Misty gimme kiss

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    I'm moving this to Help With Life. :|

    And to be honest... I would be freaked out if someone drew a portrait like that out of the blue. I'd keep that to yourself.

    Otherwise, just be honest.
     
  3. Yozora Archer

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    Alright, thanks.

    And sorry, I didn't know where to post this. I tried to look, lol. Im always at the Spam Zone.

    Edit - So, anything else? I like to be prepared, so... I would love to hear some opinions.
     
  4. Johnny Bravo Chaser

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    Save the portrait, dont break it out YET, if you do, make it after you guys are already together. OR if she says no to you, you can send it to her with a letter telling her your true feelings and it will show her you really care(:

    As for now, Ask her to hang out, do something, build up friendship a little, but not too much. Tell her you care for her alot and Love everything about her. Personality, looks, eyes, anything and everything. Once you hang out a few times ask her out, if she says no dont give up, wait a little while, maybe throw in that protrait(:

    Idk how much that helped, sorry if it wasnt helpful
     
  5. Akua WaterDragonKing Traverse Town Homebody

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    Okay before anything, get ride of that art project or put it away for later if you get together. Showing that to her before your together would spook the hell out of her.

    Before we go on, I'm going to ask three questions.

    Question 1: Do you know anything she likes? TV Shows, Games, etc.
    Question 2: Do both of you go to a certain place that you see each other at? (Besides school)
    Question 3: Do you two have anything in common?
     
  6. Yozora Archer

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    Well, that's what sorta sucks. You see, I know she likes me, and I like her, so if we hang out I don't want to make it awkward. She hangs out with these other girls and I don't know.I have this thing for girls, so it would be even more awkward to be sitting around them.
    1. Sorry, I don't stalk her. But WAIT. She does love Anime, AND she loves to draw just like me! Back when Death Note was new she loved it. (I could tell since she made herself look like Misa with the pony tails. I also overheard her talking about the show with one of her friends.)

    2. School so far. I live out of town, so... She's a grade below me, I see her in some classes and during lunch time.

    3. Yes. I read her Facebook profile (Lol, stalker.) and we have a lot in common. She just reminds me so much of myself. She loves Anime, Death Note, loves to draw, etc. I could go to her profile and post down info, but that wouldn't be too bright, right? But yeah, I can tell we have a lot in common, and I think she does too. We like eachother, we're just too shy.
     
  7. Akua WaterDragonKing Traverse Town Homebody

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    Hmm.....
    Okay just a few more questions then I think I might have some helpful advice.

    1. Do you own anything "Anime"? Anything from Shirts to Keychains.
    2. Do you have some guys friends who actually know her friends?
    3. Do you have a place where alot of "Cool" people from your school go? (For me it's the mall)
     
  8. Yozora Archer

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    1. Lol, I don't own anything "Anime". I just like it since I like the way they draw the characters, and she likes that too.

    2. Well, I do know this friend of mine called Lucas and he seems to know her friends AND her. He also haves a crush on her. He sort of said so on Facebook. A little mistake.

    3. There's nothing to do back here, really. All the "cool" kids just go to each others houses or go to some sporting games. (Sports I don't like, though Im pretty good at soccer and basketball.)
     
  9. Akua WaterDragonKing Traverse Town Homebody

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    Damn, that helps....(Don't take that the wrong way)

    Well is there a park you know about thats close? Also why don't you bring some guy friends (Not Lucas, ofcouse) and do somestuff together. Maybe go see a movie or just watch the stars or clouds and see if they make certain shapes. Just make sure your beside her, and make sure she notices you and not the other guys.
     
  10. Yozora Archer

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    Im sorry, but you would sort of know why I wouldn't bring some guy friends with me. I don't really like the people here that much, though they like me. I do have a best friend, but I had to move from the town he lives in since that's where a relative of ours died and my parents couldn't take it.

    No friends. No nothing. No support for me. That's my problem I guess... I'll just have to ask her some time, so I would like some help on how to do that. Sigh, so much going on. Sorry if Im not making much sense, though you are helping. That's what I needed. Thanks for showing support.
     
  11. Akua WaterDragonKing Traverse Town Homebody

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    Why don't you just ask her? Hey you never know until you try. Trust me, I had a girl for THREE years, because I told her that. Then I move in 6th grade from Florida to stinking Virginia.... We had to break up because of that... Hardest thing ever....The girls liked me there, but trashy Virginia don't...... Well I got off topic quickly.

    Anyway, just grab some courage and asked her out to the movies or something.
    Sorry I couldn't have been anymore help.
    Also goodluck :noworries:
     
  12. Yozora Archer

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    Ummm...I want to know how to ask her out, but thanks anyway.
     
  13. Akua WaterDragonKing Traverse Town Homebody

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    oh...Damn it....I always dance around the real question! D:<
    Sorry about that, I over think the question alot.

    Well, why don't you start by asking a question like "Do you think I'm funny?"
    Then keep asking questions (Your personality mostly), and when you think you've ask enough questions say "To me (INSERT HER NAME HERE), your all those things and more." That should get something going.
     
  14. Yozora Archer

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    Ummm... Man. So many opportunities I've missed to do this, and now I can't during lunch.


    I'll try this, dude. Thanks, it will have to leade somewhere.
     
  15. La Sofa ('_')-l3 No worries

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    TIP FOR ASKING OUT A GIRL
    Act confident. You need to. Since your older then her, acting confident will kinda make her look up to you. Even if your not confident in yourself, still act confident. Movies in a very nice approach, its not saying your on a date, but something more. Acting shy is the worst thing you can do. You must show character and act confident while doing it. Hope this helps. :)
     
  16. Yozora Archer

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    Well, girls sorta love the way I act when talking to them. Lol, Im just naturally funny and people love it. I'll try to act confident. Surely that'll do some magic since confidence and humour would be a nice mix, no?

    Thanks guys, these are some good tips. I'll need to find the right time to do this though.