my sister is gay and a smoker 2 of my good friends r moving out of state my dad is ill my dogs leg is messed up and none of my friends r talking to me im so alone
The first thing is that why does it matter if your sister is gay? Also, if she smokes, sooner or later she'll get smart and quit. You shouldn't break ties with her over such things as they are just parts of her personality and definitely not who she all is. She's still your sister and more than some things she does. I hope that helps you in getting along with her more because as alone as you feel, I'm sure at times she feels just as alone. I'm sorry to hear you are losing two of your good friends and none of your other friends appear to be talking to you. Perhaps you can keep some contact with them over the internet or phone. It seems you might want to try and go out and meet some new people and if you can, be a bit more social. Perhaps join a club, sport, group of some sort to allow you to meet new people and do something productive to help make friends and also get out there and be part of something. The walls are closing in around you but there's still a door there to get out of the predicament here. Losing friends really sucks but it becomes part of life as you grow older and you also meet new people. You never of course have to forget your old friends. I had to move in 10th grade and I hated it, but did manage to keep ties with a very good friend and we now met up again and hang out so it can work to do that too if you are able. I hope your dad will be okay and it's not anything life threatening. I bet he's going through a lot now too as it seems your sister is. Your dad and you might be able to take this time to hang out more and do some things because it's quite possible that your whole family seems to be kind of going through pain and loneliness about now. Maybe if you try doing some things with him it will show him you care and also you spend some quality time together. Did your dog get taken to the vet? If not, if it is serious, that may be the best option here. Again, I hope that it's not serious. It seems though right now you are feeling very lonely and displaced and there are ways to help that out. Your family as a whole seems to be going through so much and you might feel less lonely if you try to be there with them and perhaps all of you can come up with some activities to do. Also, as I mentioned earlier, getting out and doing something with new people like doing a sport or joining some club, getting into some public sort of event etc might help you feel more a part of society and life. A lot is coming down on you but this is when you would want to reach out and do more rather than isolating yourself and letting this negative emotional energy take over. I hope things work out for you and this helped you at all. It really is a crap situation you are in with so much going on. One of these problems is certainly easier to deal with than a bunch of problems all on top of each other but if you work at each thing individually it may help you in the long run.
About your sister being gay you probably can't change that but tell her to stop smoking because she'll get sick or something and she might listen.About your friends you should call them and talk to them or you guys could go to eachother's house like a few times a year to see each other.I'm sorry to hear about your dad I hope he gets better.Also about your dog like Repliku said you should take him to the vet and see what he says they can probably make him better.Your friends you should call them or go to their house(if they haven't moved yet) and talk to them and maybe you'll feel better.Hope I helped.
i'm sorry to hear about your dad and i really love dogs but like the other 2 said your dog needs to see a vet your lucky that your dog is able to got to the vet my chihuahua died this year in january :( now all i have is a silky terrier and a so called minature poodle though your sister has to learn to stop smoking she might not know that some ppl might take her as a role or something and try to do everything like her and being gay is her problem though u should try to talk to your friends or try asking your friends why they won't talk to u hopefully u can make up with your friends i had to move away from mine because oof my dad though hopefully you'll have good luck in the end
I know how it feels to have an injured dog. Just recently, I was eating over at the neighbors, dragged by my parents, and we were having a jolly good time. But then the other neighbors dog got out of the house and attack my little weiner-dog/doxine/mutt and it was terrifying, mostly because 1. My little puppy-dog's been attacked two times this year, and 2, it's a big labordor. Luckily, Snickers (my little puppy) was able to excape with just a little gash in his lower muscell. I hope you dog is going to be better, 'cause dogs must have working legs. May you be able to aford a vet, and anything that may come after that.
I don't really understand what's so important about posting that you sister's gay on here. There's nothing wrong with that. And about the smoking thing, I agree with Repliku, she'll quit eventually. Friends moving away is part of life. It's never easy, but it's not the end of the world. If two of your friends are moving away and the other ones won't talk to you, make some new friends. And I hope your dad and your dog's leg get better ^^
