-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- /Sarcasm Ooh let's see here, where do I begin? Oh! I know! I WAS LIED TO BY MY BF (now ex)! We got togeather not even a month ago. He said he was happy and all this other crap. Then all of a sudden he calls it off! And I also find out that he didn't even give a crap about me from the start! He even used me for his own pleasure! So you know what I did the next day (which was yesterday)? I went over to him at lunch, poored a bottle of freezing water all over him, called him a lying son of a *bleep*, and walked off. And GOD IT FELT GOOD! If there is one thing I hate more: it's liars. And I know that this is true because my friend showed me his friend's phone and my ex was saying that he didn't even want to really date me anyway and all this other crap. And he even lied to my face. So yeah. I regret nothing. That lying coward deserved what was coming to him. And you know what? It felt good to stand up for my self for once. I don't take crap from liars like that. I'm not depressed about anything. I'm happy. I also heard that he was thinking about taking me back until I poored the water all over him. So now I'm just really confused. But I also think that he could just be saying that to be a *bleep* and just get back at me for what I did to him. My head is telling me that he could've been telling the truth the whole time, but my gut says that he's a liar no matter what, but another part of me is also saying that someone could just be lying to my face about everything that I have been hearing... I just now talked to him about everything. I told him what I have been hearing. He just kept bringing up the water bottle thing and he seemed too ****ed off to really talk at the moment. I didn't appologize about the water bottle or anything else though, I only talked to him about what's been going on for the past week. But something didn't really seem right when I talked to him just now... it kind of looked like he was trying to hide a smile. So I'm playing things cautious and if he really did want to get back with me, I'm not going to take him back until I feel like he really is telling the truth (nor am I apologizing for anything until I really know). I honestly don't really know who to believe right now. I'm leaning towards my friends more than him but a tiny bit of me is leaning towards him too. Ugh... I really wish I could read minds so I can know for sure who's telling the truth or not.
How did you come by this information? Was it something someone told you, did he tell you directly, did he do something, etc.? And, I do admit, I find the water bottle thing a bit of an overreaction. I mean I fully understand why you did it, using someone and lying to them is an absolutely crap thing to do, and you're fully right to be pissed about it, but publicly humiliating him and probably forcing him to leave school is stooping dangerously close to his level. I can understand why he'd be be upset and not want to talk to you. Still, what's done is done & all. Still, think we'd be a bit more helpful with some details.
