This is from my last thread... I was going to change it but i said it to be closed... I like this girl in my class but she acts like I am invisible... her guy friends tease me and bully me I have no idea what to do... I really like her and its hard to get over her... She says Kingdom Hearts is gay so that could be a problem but she also uses me when she need help with school work... Is she the wrong girl for me? I am beginning to think so... Thoughts?
if you like kingdom hearts more then her then you dont like her that much about the invisible and being used thing it happens all the time try being more assertive when it comes to bullies but dont go to far try talking to her and if she is just being to harsh to you then i would say try to get over her this happens to all of us tell me would you want a pretty face and have them torment you etc or have someone that isnt 110% good looking and have them be nice to you and like what you like
My friend, if this person only uses you to help with school work and doesn't care about you, she is the wrong girl for you. It's not easy to get over anyone, but it can be worse for someone who finds you invisible and use you too. I say, stay strong and put your foot down if she tries using you again. Tell her to figure things out for herslef or ask the teacher. Try and stay with the friends you do have to distract yourself, or just try to avoid her when possible. Stick with it friend, and good luck.
well to be honest if you use this sight it is pretty hard to get a girl friend. If you use this sight and you get a girlfriend, just pretend like you do not even know about this sight. And don't go to others for help, because that just says you are shy. If you want to get a girlfriend, you have to not be shy and tell her that you think she is cute.
Thanks to you all... I don't think I would let a girl trample on me like this... I guess the bullys will do this no matter what... I will see what I can talk to about with the school councilor and avoid her... No body really likes me... I am the school nerd... I work on the schools website, I love computers ;D, I also get good grades and thats what makes me unappealing in my school. Some teachers are intimidated by me and give me unfair grades... Again thanks... Oh BTW benyboywantkhcodes, its SITE not sight...
If good grades is what makes you "unappealing", than your peers definitely need to fix their priorities. Nobunaga hit it right on the nail. If she only talks to you when she needs help with her work, she's using you. :/ Getting over someone isn't easy, but you need to move on.
This^ And this^ Basically, If a girl uses you like that, then she isn't worth your time. I know this is gonna sound weird but you need to be assertive with bullies, you don't have to take that crap. If teachers give you unfair grades, thats not intimidation, thats just stupidity. Basically, you need to stick up for yourself, without getting into too much trouble. And remember, THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING A NERD!
You guys are awesome... this advice is really lifting my spirits... When I get called a nerd.. I tell them "You remember that when you are living in a ditch and I am making a salary over 200,000 bucks!" It shuts them up lol.:)
Do not do this. I can tell you from experience that this will most likely make the bullying worse. From what you've said, I would let it go. She seems to use you only for her own ends; next time she asks say "No" and see what happens. My guess will that she will either whine/try and guilt trip you, or will possibly insult you and find some other guy to ask. I don't think she's right for you, dude, and it's not worth hurting yourself more by trying to pursue her. Good luck.
Screw her. If her guy friends end up getting physical, beat the crap out of them. Your school at least should have a rule saying that's okay as long as it's self-defense, which it is in your case. Ask yourself: Is there anything at all special about her? She calls your interests "gay" and her friends treat you like dirt. Don't help her with her work. Tell her to do it herself. There's bound to be someone better than her.
YES This girl is not even worth the try, she is your basically *****y whorish teenage girl who thinks she can get away with anything with her looks. Don't be silly, don't even think about thinking of helping her with her school work, next time she askes you give her a big fat "no". I know it's not easy getting over someone you really like but hey, nobody said it's impossible. :,) there's more fish in the sea kiddo.
Maan i was once in the same position and i understand and i feel sorry your in that position. It is not love, it is merely a crush so you should try to just ignore her back and forget about her. She is using you and either confront her about it or ignore her for it. either way works. Confronting her about it will show her that you are not someone she can play with. If she tries to pull something nice to get you to do her work then just start ignoring her.
First off, she uses you to help with homework and doesn't stop her guy friends from picking on you. That means she can't care much for you. It may be hard to 'get over her' but it's not like you're together either. Hang in there and find someone who will stand up for you, likes what you like, and doesn't only talk to you for help with homework or something. But, I know teenage years are though with hormones and growing minds etc, but you're still in school. Focus on that and your actual life, like emotions, home stuff, and what not. You're still young so the last thing you need is to focus on girls and jumping head in and killing your youth so early.
