Dear KHV, I need your help with lessons in love and life.

[reference to survivingtheworld. Anyway, ]

Because KHV is like the most uber helpful site ever, I need to ask you a sort of personal question ;o
Would you date someone that already has a Boyfriend/Girlfriend?
It's kind of my problem. This girl is apparently into me, but she already has a boyfriend. I don't even know the guy, and this girl is actually really cool.
But I'd feel somewhat bad for the guy himself.

I probably won't do it, but would you?

 

Naw wouldn't do that shit.

 

If she's into you and you are into her go for it but before you do this tell her that she has to break up with her boyfriend first, that means that alot of drama will be saved from happening.

 

If she's not into you enough to break up with her bf, then she's just plain not into you enough.

Personally, I'd want her to choose. If she stayed with him, whether because she chose him or couldn't choose, I'd wait.

 

Is this even a serious question?

The thing about helping someone cheat, is that when it finally comes to the point where they break up with the other person, who's to say they won't cheat on you?

You already have evidence of them being shallow and unfaithful. Is that who you want to date?

At least wait or find another girl, don't be stupid.

 

Now, that's a bit presumptuous. We don't know the details.

 

If he dates her, while she's dating another guy.

That's evidence that she is unfaithful.

And is also the whole point of my post which you clearly missed.

 

Cin people aren't in black and white, you should know that by now. Although this might be evidance that these people/person are/is shallow, you don't know the person/people enough to make that assumation.

 

I would wait for the person - if they're "into" you, then they would break up with their current boyfriend/girlfriend and get with you. xD

 

I wouldn't. I tell her to dump the guy or no dice. :3 True facts.

 

Well you also said shallow, that's more what I was getting at.

 

Hell no :l I ain't going to be the second choice..or I wouldn't share a guy..or ACTUALLY go for a boy who already has a girlfriend xD I ain't no whore.

AND JADDIE I AM DISSAPOINT. I THOUGHT YOU LVED ME.BOO.

 

Forsaken, you know i'd date you, and i'm sure Sammy wouldn't mind sharing. ;D

 

No. No, no, no, no, no. Please. No.​

 

I lol'd.

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You can do it. Just chase her boyfriend away with your chainsaw, duh.


No, but seriously, just no. Even if you are somewhat into her I wouldn't go near until the breakup is well over and done and has simmered down.
:v

 

It's quite obvious that she's completely unfaithful. I can't think of anything that would prove otherwise.

 

And then what happens when you're together and she is really fond of another guy again?

 

I agree with both of these.
I didn't get introduced to the wonderful thing we call high school drama until my sophomore year.
I was into this girl, she was into me, she had a boyfriend who was bisexual.
I helped her cheat. I felt bad for the dude, but hey, horny girl who's into me > dude I don't even know.
But I didn't date her.
Never would, because, as Cin said, I know what's she like.
The next year, first time I was serious with a girl. She was dating my friend so of course I didn't do anything. (She claimed she wouldn't either, but invited me to spend the night at her house...which I did....turns out she didn't) He's convinced we had an "emotional affair" which may be right, but she didn't cheat physically. And even if she wanted to cheat on him with me, I wouldn't do it
I'd help a girl cheat if I didn't know the dude, but if I knew him, I'd feel too guilty.

 

Why so angry? o; I never said I did it, and I hardly considered it. As you, Advent, Bright Frost and others said, she's unfaithful and can't be trusted. It was more of a question towards you guys.
Sadly, I know a lot of people who would consider and even do it while she herself is hooked up. I wanted to know if it's the same thing here.

You know you'll eventually be the only one for me in this world when I'm all alone D;

I'd think Sammy would come hunt me if you did.

 

No.
Nein.
Nyet.
No.
No.
Noooooooooooooooooo.

And also...no.