dammit... parents divorced...

Discussion in 'Help with Life' started by Bond of Flame, Oct 27, 2008.

  1. Bond of Flame I'm an alien

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    Do things ever work out between parents? Especially my little sisters cried the hell out of themselves, I had to keep myself in. A few minutes later, when I got upstairs to my room I smashed my closet in...

    It wasn't only because my parents always had a fight with each other, it was partly because my mother couldn't take it anymore taking care of 'three annoying children' as she pronounces us... My father then yelled again at my mother and she said she's gonna leave the next morning... And she did.
     
  2. Daenerys Targaryen ok

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    I'm sorry, it's a touchy subject.​

    I can't blame anyone because I feel so bad,​

    But, your Mom I'm sorry kinda gave up on you guys.That's horrible and I hope she knows that.
    My parents have came so close before, but you know they didn't want to give up on us and they love each other. Now everything's okay.I'm sure you can visit both your parents lots once the court crisis' are over.
     
  3. Misty gimme kiss

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    Sadly, if this has been a long-time coming sort of thing, it's unlikely that they're going to get back together. besides, your mom sounds horrible, and I honestly think you might be better without her. Yes, she is your mother, but it sounds as thought she really doesn't care about you, your sisters, or your dad.

    There's nothing that you can really do, aside from making this easier on your family. I send you my sympathies~.
     
  4. Reisen Twilight Town Denizen

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    `I think parents have there ups and downs.
    But I think they work out things, but in a
    different way that we can't relate to.

    ~This has always been a problem in
    mostly every household. I guess you
    can say that it's part of life to argue to get
    your point out to the other person.

    -Divorcing each other may cause tress in a child
    life, and may lead to suicide.
    I think you show not get there business or affairs,
    but try to think of something to solve the issues in your household.
     
  5. tSG1 Chaser

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    Wow, i feel for you. The only thing you can do is try to not think about you're mom being missing, and focusing on the good things in life.
     
  6. Cherry Pie Pwns Gummi Ship Junkie

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    I'm real sorry. The only thing I can suggest try to bear it because hopefully it will all be temporary. That's what I did when my dad died. But then again, divorces aren't as temporary as the death of a loved one. They may last for years with all the settlements. I wish I could say more to help you.
     
  7. Sumi suicidé

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    *hugs* It'll all work out. I know how it feels hon, remember it's not your fault. It never was and never will be.
     
  8. John Clay Rice Hollow Bastion Committee

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    My parents been together for 22 years. My dad's siblings are the onces that divorces. Anyway I hope it' ll work out.
     
  9. Scott Pilgrim Banned

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    Trust me. It's not that bad. If it makes you feel better, 1/3 American married couples get a divorce.
     
  10. Pure Beats~ Chaser

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    It'll work out, don't worry.

    My mom left me and my dad after they were married two or three years; I was a little older than two.
    Sure, the road gets difficult, but your friends and your family will help you through this tough times.

    If you ever need to talk to someone about this sort of thing, I'm only a pm away.
     
  11. water mage Kingdom Keeper

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    I'm sorry to hear that. Just know if they do end up getting an divorce it's simply because they can't or won't work matters out and don't think that's its your fault. They both do love you, but sometimes in order to be better parents themselves they have to seperate.
     
  12. Reisen Twilight Town Denizen

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    But at the same rate as getting back together is a 60%.