hey guys sorry if this is in the wrong place. anywayz i was wondering if im the only one who thinks of being alone. lately ive been having a few personal issues andpondering about myself. my whole life ive had help doing most thinks with friend or family but lately ive been feeling like im strong enough to do stuff on my own . is this a problem? am i the only one who feels like this?
On your own can get lonely. You don't need their help for the activity, you need their help in the activity as it allows you to maintain a good social wellbeing which is an important part of health. (I love health classes at school. So fun.)
thanks man. i know but the thing is i know im strong enough to be alone. i dont know why but for some reason ive become anti social. when im out commuting i dont even hang out with my friends as much as i used to.
I think a lot of people feel this way sometimes. Me personally, have the opposite "problem". I don't want to be alone. I'm afraid of it. I used to think I could do everything by myself though. It isn't weird or anything.
Oh no, trust me, you're not the only one. I do it all the time. I usually take care of myself, think I can fix my own problems so I don't have to be a problem to someone else, or just think I'm not worthy to have friends in real life sometimes. But these are not good feelings, nor good attitudes at all. Basically, when you keep certain feelings to yourself, you start building mental walls around your mind. Since you start to not let your feelings out, then you're building a storm inside that makes you depressed, sad, and your self-esteem will start dropping. Okay, sometimes it's good to be alone. Like, if you feel like you want to claw someone's eyes out, or you're afraid to snap at them, then it's good to have some alone time to yourself until you winde down a bit. But being alone all the time isn't really good... if you know what I mean... You start feeling lonely, and really sad, and that you're not good enough... If you feel like you're strong enough to do stuff on your own... that might be a good thing. But don't be afriad to ask someone for advice if you run into a dead end. Pick out someone you trust, and let them know what you're feeling.... Er... I probably went off the subject there slightly... >< Hope the advice helps....
yea... i sometimes wanna be alone. like yesterday i watch a movie alone. i like being alone sometimes coz u only think bout urself not wat other ppl are thinking. Hope this helps
Everyone needs alone time. Some times, more that others. Some times, more often than not. I'm very content with being alone. Since I'm asexual and aromantic, I find no problem. Sometimes, we feel that way. Sometimes me more than you. Sometimes you more than I. Just depends on little fragments of time woven together by your actions and others', as well.
