Hey everyone here's my problem. OK, there's a girl in my grade that I really like. She's into alot of the same stuff as I am and we've hung out a few times. But she's popular so I barely ever get to talk to her. Almost all my friends know I like her and say I should just go ask her out. But I'm really shy around girls I like. I'm not sure what I'm suposed to do. I've liked her for a while but I don't know how to improve my chances with her. Last year one of her friends told me she was into me, but that was a year ago. I need your guy's help.
It doesn't matter how shy or how popular you are, asking someone out basically works the same way. Just approach her, compliment her (girls love that) and ask her if she would like to hang out some more. Then, when the moment is right, BAM! Just ask her sweetly if she would like to go out with you. Seriously. Just say "Would you like to go out with me?" Just be brave and confident. Good luck.
Pretty much what ObsessedWithSora said.Be brave and confident.Try to talk to her more and more each day.Building a relationship takes time.So try to take that time to get to know her more and more.And when you think the time is right, ask her out.
I've known her since I was little but I didn't think about being in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship then. I'll work to be closer to her.
do your best you could try finding out what she likes an working with that eg. take her for a picnic if thats what shes into... lol i know a picnic may be a bit "cheesey". good luck
You should try and spend more time with her and get closer to her emotionally if you like her, and see if you can work in going out with her. You two already seem somewhat close so I think you could pull it off.
Thanks to everyone who's posted so far. If you have any advice for me, please post it. I could use the help.
I'd say that you should try to talk with her and find out her interests. Get to know her more and share things about yourself. Try to get more comfortable around her. Then, just ask the girl out. Shyness is something anyone with a conscience feels when doing something because we wonder how that other person is going to react. Sometimes the answer 'no' isn't even as intimidating to us as the thought of what the person might think of us afterward. It's normal, but if you let this emotion dominate you, you are going to miss out on things more than you would if you let it subside. You've liked this girl now for a year at least and last year someone told you that she could reciprocate those feelings. I wouldn't waste much more time on not asking her out because if you do, she's probably going to move on and you will have missed your chance of knowing if you could have gone out with her or not. Go for it. The worst that can happen is she says no and to me that's better than never knowing at all what could have been.
dude ur exactly like my friend he likes so many girls and never askes them out hes scared of "rejection" sorry off topic Well dude if you really like her then you should try to find a time to talk to her, like after school or in the hallways. If you want her you have to give yourself a chance and ask her out. If she says "No" that means shes just either not ready for a boyfriend or just isn't into you anymore.. well just try ur best to know her a little more then when its the right time for you can ask her out.
