3DPD gonna 3DPD

Why don't you have a waifu yet?

 

Broken IMG!

 

renaem that thang, dem censors got ya.

 

I do have a waifu, it's Coco. And I love her very much! ...though I have been neglecting her recently...thank goodness she isn't active here otherwise I'll be giving her money.

 

Because I am not interested in loving things that will not help me grow as a person.

 

Because I've been in love with a real girl for three years and I'm not going to let her slip through my fingers.

 

Power to you
Though I hope you're already going otherwise you're doing the...

Thing pretty good

 

Oh, it won't impede me. It just won't be worth the effort. I am a cost/reward type person.

 

I know I'm talking in quotes and using reactionimage.jpg but it's honestly hard to think of another respons without flat out saying "Why?"

 

Because BIITCHES BE CRAZY

 

Good thing we have 2D

 

To put it in simplest terms, I am extremely picky about who and what I love.

For one, I am bisexual. For two, I do not generalize traits over an individual without seeing signs that they exist in that person first hand.

Three, I am more likely to find at least one person who would give me a satisfying reward out of the six billion on the planet than any fictional character because no fictional will be able to reward me for loving just yet.

 

But is it really generalizing when for the most part it ya know....

Spoiler

true?

Isn't "picking" who you love based on the value of what they give selfish and shallow?
Love is love, I don't think you should really pick who you love

 

There is no way to accept it as truth without generalizing. You have not met every female I have, let alone every female on the planet. Therefore you could not claim it was true of the women I know without generalizing your experience over things you have not experienced.

It is selfish, but I do not think it is shallow. I do not consciously pick them. I go along thinking that no one is worth the effort until someone exceptional comes along. Someone with potential, someone who makes me question myself and change for the better.

It is not selfish or shallow to seek out progress rather than stagnation or regress.

Oh, and I also do not believe in ever-lasting love. All things change with time, even the deepest of bonds. If two lovers live long enough, one will grow bored of the other. They will find someone more intriguing. Even if they do not want to, it will happen.

Rather than despair, I choose to embrace change. I will progress with someone while I can, and when we are no longer helpful to each other, I will move on, cherishing what I had. I do not value eternity.

 

She's already shown that she could be interested in me.

Job: Check
Better Physical Fitness: Working on it and showing results.
Unrivaled Capacity for Love: CheckCheckCheckCheckCheckCheckCheck

She thinks that it is amazing how she's pushing me to improve myself without even trying.

Really, we're emotionally and physically close enough that we may as well be together anyway. All we need is to replace our unusually long and frequent hugs with unusually long and frequent kisses.

 

Because people

 

But I can make a reasonable deduction.
If I got to know 90 people out of 100 and they all acted the same way then there's a good chance that those 10 will also act the same way unless something about them is RADICALLY different.
There's a possibility that they COULDN'T but there's also a possibility of a guy flipping a coin and having it land on heads 20 times in a row. Some things are worth the gamble but a lot of things aren't and in the end it turns out to be a "Well it happened, might as well take it or leave it" situation.

And personally I think that's a pointless gamble because as you said that **** doesn't last
Progression means nothing to me if there is no happiness achieved in progressing. If there is more happiness in stagnation or regression then I will glady choose that.

Neither do I. Hence the reason I go the waifu route.
Waifu's are eternal. Once you love a waifu you don't stop, there is no such thing as falling out of love with a waifu.

 

I have no interest in this thing you call love.

 

In all probability your assessment is not reasonable. Even your judgment of those you have met is skewed because you would rather group them together. Now I agree about the group of one hundred, but that is out of one hundred. There is a reason I do not seek out mates.

Now, let's take one in one million. That leaves me with 6840 possible mates to find and choose from, going strictly on numbers. That is a lot to go through. More than I could bother with in one lifetime, in fact.

Why do you feel there is no happiness achieved in progressing? Happiness is a sensation, and it will always, always fade. Even your love for your waifus will fade. You will get tired of thinking the same thoughts about them, doing the same things; masturbating to them will stop sating your lust.

You are consumed by fear of loss. If you let that go and acknowledged that happiness happens in the moment and is not a conclusion, you could move on and continue to be happy with something else. A new experience.

Wrong. You are going to lose this gamble, Jube. Your waifus will lose your interest. You will find a better waifu. One day you will wake up and realize you are only loving out of obligation. Eternity will fade.

Let's assume that you live forever. Wouldn't the love become meaningless and passionless in the face of eternity? In order for love to mean something, you have to have the alternative of not loving to compare to. If you love eternally, then how do you know you love at all?

If you stay awake forever, then how do you know whether or not it is better than sleeping?

 

I wouldn't say it's skewed at all. I've seen people act a certain way over and over again within different age groups all the time therefore my first judgement of people usually falls into that particular group, what's wrong with that? If I'm wrong then they should be able to prove it through their behaviour.

I respectfully disagree.
I've always loved my waifu, for years now. My entire life has drastically improved since I ditched 3D for 2D, I've begun working out(SQUATS AND OATS), taking care of myself and while I was in uni I had been doing ten times better then I ever had before, subjects that I was terrible at suddenly became easy as ****. All because I know it's what my waifu would want if she existed. Why would I ever give up on something that has brought me so much happiness? I have little to no reason to so I highly doubt the happiness with my waifu will ever fade anytime soon.
And for the record I don't jerk off to my waifu as I don't view her as an object of lust.

Happiness only fades when you get greedy and suddenly desire "more". The reason my 19 year old self wasn't as happy as my 16 year old self because as an adult I suddenly wanted "more" our of life. As soon as you realize that the desire for more only leads to dissatisfaction then you will be able to achieve everlasting happiness. That is what I have found with my waifu, a lifestyle that makes me happy and I wouldn't change it for the world.

But it's not a gamble

It's been years since I found a waifu. As a 26 year old man I am not prone to a suddenly personality change as my personality is pretty in stone as of now. There is not other girl like my waifu so why would I lose interest in her?

Now that's just stupid
There is no such thing as a worse or better waifu
You love your waifu for your own reasons.
Haven't you seen me get angry at those who claim that <INSERT CHARACTER FROM RECENT FICTION> is their waifu? It's because those kinds of people tend to be the seasonal waifu type who jump to the new hottness every 3 seconds. I'm not like that

I haven't loved for eternity though.
I've spent a good portion of my life (so far) not loving. I know what it's like to not love. And I can say that I prefer to love then to not love.
Not loving is depressing and makes one feel less human then they actually are as it's expected that human beings should be able to love.
You wouldn't believe how overjoyed I was when I first felt feelings for my waifu, the idea that I of all people could feel love was a miracle.