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  1. Trigger
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    Jealousy

    Thank you for the help and suggestions, guys... I've started to talk about it with her this morning and I am already feeling better. I really wanted to tell her, but I was afraid of how she would react. I don't want to keep her in the dark at all. I know people don't take jealousy well, and I didn't want to burden her, but she seemed very understanding and did her best to reassure me of everything.

    So, again... Thanks.
    Post by: Trigger, Oct 10, 2011 in forum: Help with Life
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    omg please draw me i'll give you a hug and candy with little ribbons on them.
    Post by: Trigger, Oct 10, 2011 in forum: The Playground
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    Jealousy

    In all of my relationships, I've had a problem with jealousy to some extent. I've been made aware of it and have tried to work on it over the years, but sometimes I crack.

    I've been in a relationship with someone for seven months now, and we've had no problems at all. We've always mentioned when we find someone attractive and it was never a big deal. I thought I had finally dealt with my jealousy, because doing this in past relationships was just out of the question.

    Now, here I am, and jealousy has slithered back into my heart. One day, my partner was telling me she thought someone was attractive and boom. Something inside just breaks and I'm overwhelmed with jealousy. Then she tells me she thinks someone we both follow on tumblr is attractive, and I couldn't take it. Now every time I see that person post on tumblr I just quietly seethe. Actually, this happens with everyone she tells me that she finds attractive now.

    When I get jealous, I just end up becoming cold, quiet and reclusive. I start feeling like I am not good enough and that they would rather someone else than I. I put so much pressure on myself, feeling like I have to be perfect. This can last for hours, and it's entirely unhealthy and damaging to the relationship that I cherish so dearly. I do not want to ruin the one beautiful thing I have with such trivial, unwarranted jealousy.

    I do not know what to do or how to control this. I feel weak.
    Thread by: Trigger, Oct 9, 2011, 7 replies, in forum: Help with Life
  4. Trigger
    If you're going to give someone a muffin, it has to be a double fudge. Go big or go home.
    Post by: Trigger, Oct 9, 2011 in forum: The Spam Zone
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    Sabby also sucks at Uncharted~ :3
    Post by: Trigger, Oct 8, 2011 in forum: The Spam Zone
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    Looks pretty cool to me.
    Post by: Trigger, Oct 7, 2011 in forum: The Spam Zone
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    Internet Explorer is just so unsafe and unstable... how anyone uses it is beyond me.
    Post by: Trigger, Oct 5, 2011 in forum: The Spam Zone
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    I use Chrome because it's so lightweight and fast. Firefox acts like Internet Explorer now. It's so slow and clunky and bloated. At least that's how it feels once I switched to Chrome so long ago.
    Post by: Trigger, Oct 5, 2011 in forum: The Spam Zone
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    Nooo. Reading this just made me more excited, but I have to wait until the end of the month to get it. HEAVY SIGH.

    Also, Big Pilgrim is an awesome name for a boss.
    Post by: Trigger, Oct 5, 2011 in forum: The Spam Zone
  11. Trigger
    I love Silent Hill 4.
    Post by: Trigger, Oct 4, 2011 in forum: The Spam Zone
  12. Trigger
    Isn't that made by the same people who made Flower? I played that, but not .flow D;
    Post by: Trigger, Oct 4, 2011 in forum: The Spam Zone
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    Better yet, go up to her and say, "That's gross." after using her computer. Give absolutely no indication as to what you mean.
    Post by: Trigger, Oct 3, 2011 in forum: The Spam Zone
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    [​IMG]

    Makaze is so erotically cute!
    Post by: Trigger, Oct 2, 2011 in forum: The Spam Zone
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    Yet you treat the Spam Zone like your own personal blog...
    Post by: Trigger, Oct 2, 2011 in forum: The Spam Zone
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    I played it for a week, but then I got bored of it.
    Post by: Trigger, Oct 2, 2011 in forum: The Spam Zone
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    Emery / Listening to Freddie Mercury
    Post by: Trigger, Oct 1, 2011 in forum: The Playground
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    You get a single spaghetti noodle. Dry and stale.
    Post by: Trigger, Oct 1, 2011 in forum: The Spam Zone
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    YACHT / Holy Roller
    Post by: Trigger, Oct 1, 2011 in forum: The Playground
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    No idea what Mike sounds like, but I will pretend this information never entered my mind.
    Post by: Trigger, Oct 1, 2011 in forum: The Spam Zone