It is nearly 2am on a Saturday night and I can see several UK members online, pretty sure we aren't showing much of a social life right now either :b but you know having a social life isn't the be all and end all of the world. You can still enjoy life, and if you want more friends then go make more friends. Complaining you have no friends won't do anything except make you more miserable. Don't be so ungrateful about your best friend either, don't take them for granted. It is better than being alone isn't it? Question: do you do this because you WANT to? Or because you feel like you HAVE to? If you want to be doing more then DO more. It is unreasonable to expect everyone to stand around giving applause and cheering you know? Again, if you want things to change, you have to help that change. You don't realise that by being so negative you are holding yourself back. People won't want to associate with someone who is always so down and negative, lighten up you know? We aren't all going to bite, well not unless you're into that ;B You really don't have any reason at all to have low confidence. If you don't want it there then don't have it there. Simple as. I don't think many people have confidence in their looks to be honest; we're all in the same boat there. What you aren't getting is that we do try to hear you out, but we can only meet you halfway you know? You need to be prepared to work on it too.
It is ok. So would I ._.
Well ok, I am going to be completely honest with you. You really don't help yourself you know? You don't interact with the forum, you make theads expecting to be the focus you know? Join in on threads, post around and be a part of it, I know you don't do it on purpose, but you seem to always try to direct the attention towards yourself. I mean that in that you never really join in in things, you make threads and stuff expecting everyone to go to you. Lack of confidence isn't frowned upon or whatever, that is actually bullshit, I speak that from both my experiences and the experiences of others I have seen. Plus, you really need to stop letting yourself get upset over the tiniest thing; you're a nice lad but we are just as scared to say something to you in case you blow up and think we're attacking you. Its a two way thing love. Basically, get involved and stop stressing so much.
This is why we can't have nice things *shot* I actually think that the people complaining are being dicks. Dalk is doing a really amazing job and some people really haven't made it easy for him. Voxli is still fun, nothing has changed, heck most of what he said was already pretty much unspoken rules. Having them written down doesn't change anything it just makes things clearer. Some of you are being incredibly unappreciative. x333
I think it would be best to go to the doctor. My reasoning being it is possible that there isn't actually something as serious as scizophrenia and I disagree with self-diagnosing. I think it would be better to know exactly what it is that you are dealing with. Plus, it is possible that because you believe yourself to be scizophrenic that you are creating the symptoms? The human mind is a very sensitive thing, think of those women who believe they are pregnant and so start experiencing symptoms of pregnancy as an example. If it IS scizophrenia, then at least you would know, and I don't think they can force you to take medication. It would just be a confirmation for you. Whatever happens, good luck with it, I genuinely mean that. Living with mental disorders can be really hard <3
I thought I'd leave you a message that wasn't making a deal about you being online~ Hi Madi, hope you have a nice weekend <3
It does matter.
:glomp: I know so Indeed ^^ lets make it happen.
You're welcome :3
Its when you post things that are uselss or off topic etc in a thread and don't contribute. Like posting "I like apples" in a thread about iceskating.
I was in a great mood, but I feel kinda meh now so idk, you?
It was yes ^^ that was why he was called Cornflake :b
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I'm sorry, I'm really not in the mood right now. My day just crashed. Sorry.
^^ so how is your weekend so far? <3 :glomp:
Yeah well, bite me Bl NUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU no mustard D:<
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Just be an active member and get involed, but don't spam ^^
You're welcome :glomp:
mhmm I thought it was an amazing name for a snake. He was so cute too x333
