Oh look a wild nub has appeared >:3 two in fact. What a rare occurrence
You are NubCat : D the only Bumfmunch!
Well, I can relate to this in more ways than one. Firstly, I was on the recieving end of this for 8 months with a man who was very reserved and didn't tell me much about his feelings which caused my anxiety to grow to such drastic extents that I just couldn't handle it, I kept fainting from stress and I became depressed and severely attached to him because I had to make him want me. It was even to the point that I was in denial about something wrong in the relationship when in fact the whole relationship was wrong, everything just didn't work and only now can I see that. However, I can also currently relate to this but on the other end. I'm not talking to him less per se (it's a long distance relationship, we text each other all the time) but my job and his lectures cause us to never really be free at the same times in the day causing us to talk less. I am very weary though of meeting up with him simply for the fact that I am not sexually attracted to him, I don't want to kiss him or do anything like that with him but I enjoy spending time with him when it's not about that stuff. I was opposed to having a long distance relationship for so long as I wanted to wait until uni but I decided to give it a shot because I did fancy him and he is basically my ideal guy (we like the same things, we get along very well and he is just so lovely and understanding) so I don't understand why I don't have any sexual thoughts about him. This is the dilemma that I am facing and don't know how to go about it because you always get those posts on facebook like "find someone who treats you like a queen" blah blah blah and I am like I HAVE THAT BUT WHY DO I NOT APPRECIATE IT? D: I don't know if he senses anything is up but I feel like I am dragging him through the mud and I don't want to but I don't know what to do in this situation. I think it's unfair yes but right now I am stuck.
I'm sure we will stop eventually >:3
Laplace D: I wish I could come in here and give you some reply that could help you answer your problems but I sadly don't know what is could be. I think the most important thing in this world is finding happiness and the way to do that is to find the things you enjoy (Singing and art for you : D) and just create whatever you want to create. Reading is also good for getting distracted or TV shows/films. Of course, when you don't feel like playing video games or drawing as you said then what I tend to do is watch something, watch something that I know will make me laugh or just do something (like I go onto tickl'd.com a lot xD). Laughter in a great medicine for sadness, I don't know if it can always work but it's a start, hey, it may even inspire you to do something creative which will distract you. The other thing is just talking about it, talk about what makes you feel sad, what makes you feel happy (you could write it into a diary if you didn't want to talk to anyone about this) or you could record what times of day you tend to be upset and why and so, after a while, you may see a pattern emerging which could highlight certain things about yourself and help you avoid the negative.
Yea, I agree with Misty, there are times to be more friendly and times to cut your losses and move on. She has hurt you quite a lot and my guess is she likes male attention and feels that she would get it from you to make herself feel better, she may like you or she may just like the idea that you like her and feels it would be safe to go to you when, if you did give her that, then she would use and abuse that friendship and then dump you when she finds something else. You have no obligation to her, she had her chance with you and blew it I say, no matter what excuse she may give. I know it is hard but it would be better off in the long run.
I have other people, but no one who I can derail threads with like I can with Cat : D WOO : D I know more than KHV!
Well I only got one as well, this is sad... I was hoping for more >:3 And shhhh.... I'm so used to calling you "Cat" that I just assumed KHV would understand who I meant.
Well I'm not opposed to this idea if it's just a simple tick box : )
Damnit... well I hope they don't log on XD I can't believe I failed so badly... one moment >:3 @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat
87 : D
I do hope she gets a notification for each one >:3
no I don't care that I have already done this joke... shh >:3
Numbers are fun : D Look at them staring into your soul : D
Well if anything bad happens I know what to do with a body >:3
Ahh no >:3 she'd be happy to have fooled me and that will last forever and then she would reveal herself and never let me live it down. I would probably get loads of notifications off of her gloating xD eh? @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat @NubCat
I can see why this would be useful if you belong to lots of forums, I am not so wouldn't find it overly useful but what exactly needs to be done- like do we just need to link gravatar up with KHV or what? I am just curious :3
Then all the better >:3 she is perfect for the job. Oooh yes, all regenerations are brilliant- literally, Pertwee's first episode is hilarious. He just lays in bed muttering about shoes before rolling away on a wheelchair. It is awesome : D
