I'm pretty good thank you, and how about you dear?
Hey Jaden C:
xD; and now I am the one who needs to reply. Also, it is the 16th TOMORROW that means that summer starts for you TOMORROW so technically it...
Oh wow that has come by quickly, do you absolutely definitely have to go? Two years will go by fast though, you'll see <3 keep smiling, and...
Awesome, how was it? Did you have a good time? I can't believe you're graduating so soon, that is so scary to me, heck I can't believe you're now...
Wasn't it your parents who thought WE were dating because they heard my voice on Voxli? Why do you have to tell them? They seem to over-react a lot >_> maybe you should tell them you're going with a group of friends
You're welcome, and in which case, file them smooth, if you keep them smoothed down as well as short, you won't be able to hurt yourself unless you use extreme pressure and force. In which case, in the time it takes you to apply that pressure, you have time to think about what you're doing. You can beat this, I promise you.
Ok, I want you to post that list before the end of the day, it can be even small things, regardless of how big/small, they must be positive things. You can do it <3 Are there times when you feel more sad than others? Ok, so here is what I also want you to do, get a small box, put your razors in it, your tweezers in it, any other sharp objects that you use in it, write yourself a small memo note along the lines of "You are worth more than this" put it inside the box too. Then I want you to close the box and seal it. You can use alternative methods to deal with your eyebrows and hair removal such as hair removal creams which are just as effective, and actually have longer lasting effects than shaving. With regards to taming your eyebrows make it a treat for yourself to get them done professionally every few weeks. By treating yourself you're making yourself feel good whilst also taking away the need to use your tweezers. With regards to your nails, I am inclined to ask you to file them smooth and file them down short, but if you are anything like me you'll like having longer nails, so there isn't really a lot I can suggest with this one, except that when you feel your hands sneaking towards your arms to hurt yourself. Tell yourself (and say it outloud) that you are worth more than this.
Why do they have to have a reason? Horrific acts of extreme violence are made much worse when there is no real motivation for it. Instead of asking "why", maybe ask "why not?" Maybe they do it simply because they can.
First of all, know that you are not alone. This is a common thing for people to go through. Ok, now down to it. Its fantastic that you are seeking help for this, because that means you acknowledge and recognise that what you're dealing with IS a problem. Congratulations, you are on the early steps to recovery. What was it that initially started your descent into it? Was there something in particular that happened? Often, if you know the cause of something you can work on fixing the damage of it. If you know the roots, you can move on. If there wasn't a particular incident or event, then try to think about if there is a pattern to the things that bring you down and make you feel this way. The self-harm, I'm going to be blunt, this is what worries me the most. Physically hurting yourself as a way to deal with emotional/mental pain is not healthy, which you seem to understand. May I ask what you use to cut yourself? and whether you have a set ritual which you follow when you do this to yourself? Is there anyone offline whom you can talk to about this? A close friend or an adult? I don't know your age but you come across as being relatively young. I also have something I would like you to do right now. Make a list of 10 things you like about yourself and your life. No excuses, do it.
But you've tried before, so at least it wouldn't be your first time? I say give it a go. This is me giving you my okay. I've had a lot of stuff happen myself so I always find other people's experiences interesting
For sure, which is why you have to be confident with it. If it is scaring you so much then you need to reclaim your home, make it leave, tell it that you don't want it there, and that it has no right to be there. It is YOUR home, not its. I know that sounds stupid, but it works, I know, I've had a similar issue myself before in the past. That pretty aces. You said you'd had only five paranormal incidents, what were they? If you don't mind me asking.
Your name is super aces
You can't be posessed or hurt unless you allow the entity to do so, in trying to make contact, you need to make sure that the energy force knows it doesn't have your permission to do harm, and that you are only allowing it to communicate with you, nothing more.
Well, if you -are- being serious, making contact isn't neccessarily a dangerous thing.
I am not sure whether you are being serious or not, so I am unsure whether to reply seriously or not, trying to figure it out is hurting my head.
I love The Cure
You have summer break tho soon right? You can do it :ninjacat:
I'm the father
You have an interesting name, that is all~
