You're right this is terrifying. brb i've got some...handiwork to do.
Since day one.
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I meant to quote this page: http://kh-vids.net/help/bb-codes
This is great, but the header is kinda glitchy on that particular page. EDIT: http://kh-vids.net/help/bb-codes
Yeah, but you have to imagine what that feels like on the receiving end of it. Everything is going well to your knowledge, and then your S.O. suddenly stops showing as much interest as they showed before and with no explanation -- you can't help but feel hurt and hopeless. Because things have obviously changed, you wanna fix it, but the other person denies that there is a problem and doesn't let you know what's going on. A lack of communication in situations like these can be very vexing on the receiving end. Spoiler Also, thanks for reading this and responding, guys. I needed to indirectly vent and I feel so much better now holy ****.
In a perfect world, relationships would be simple: Two people like each other romantically, and hang out and do relationship-y stuff. However, its never quite that simple. Things seem to go pretty well for a little while, though. You try your best to be the best significant other you can be, while respecting your partner's personal space and trying not to pester them, and they seem to try to do the same -- the "honeymoon phase" as some would call it. And yet, somewhere down the line, they become dissatisfied, distant, and start taking you for granted. They no longer text you first, they text you back less often, they no longer try as hard to keep a conversation going, become less available to spend time with you etc. But, wait a minute, how could this be? You tried your hardest to be a good significant other, how could this happen? Well, naturally, if you've tried hard to be a good partner, then it's most likely not your fault. Perhaps the other person is going through something personal and is naturally just not as into the relationship as prior. Perhaps they've grown annoyed/bored/angry at/with you, for whatever reason. Perhaps you're not satisfying them sensually. Perhaps they've found someone else. Perhaps they've changed their mind about you. What is unfortunate is that during this transition period to the inevitable breakup is that they most likely won't communicate this increasing discontentment with you. Perhaps if the other partner communicated their discontentment, perhaps you two could work things out. However, they'd most likely just exhibit sketchy behavior, make up excuses for it and plan to break up when it's most convenient. And yet...none of it. Is. Your fault. Is it fair? Nah. Will things like these keep happening? Probably. Is it worth it to keep trying to find "the one"? Maybe. Is there a "the one" for everyone? Maybe. Will you end up settling? Most likely. Is it wrong to want to give up on relationships after realizing that no matter how hard you try with someone, they may just end up changing their mind, completely unrelated to you? Absolutely not. Has anyone else been in a similar situation?
As for the funny department: It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia Portlandia Blue Mountain State The League As for the drama department: Girls (also a bit of a comedy)
Wait, woah. What?
I've been playing this song nonstop for the past 2 days. Just thought I'd spread the love. http://swearin.bandcamp.com/track/just
They're so cute. Obviously, right? But for some reason, I've been liking babies more than usual (not like that, you sicko), and it's gotten to the point when I realize that I secretly want one. Preposterous, right? How could a college-aged guy want a baby? That should be the last thing on his mind, right? I should instead be wanting to have coitus with various women, right? Oddly enough, that's not the case. Sex is great, but it's much better when it's with someone you care about rather than a large number of emotionally insignificant partners. And oddly enough, the image of the woman I love holding my child makes me happier than anything else I can imagine. I'm not sure why. Hell, one of my best friends just had a kid, had to move into an apartment with his gf and the kid, only has a high school diploma, works at a grocery store and is only 18. I'm in college, have to deal with none of that and I felt a bit jealous. Of course, I'm not gonna go out of my way to try and have one before marriage (I'll have fun practicing though heh), I understand the consequences that may bring. Hell, I have trouble saying it out loud or even typing it as I am now for fear that I may actually get my "wish" granted. But still...the lingering feeling is still there. Is this strange? Is this growing up? /blog
I actually had no idea @Sanya V. Litvyak, was RvR haha. You learn something new everyday.
I could, but I don't wanna link to it because it has some explicit pictures. But if you google "free bleeding" its the first result.
According to Modern Womans Digest, A great rebellion against patriarchy, or an insane, unsanitary trend? What do you think?
Watch this, kids.
I didn't read the thread, so forgive me if someone said this already: But yeah, I think it's possible that Riku was canonically supposed to win. If you can recall the race that they had, one of the boards on the boardwalk breaks, which makes the player go down into the water. Riku jumps right over it. If someone were to play this for the first time without a strategy book, it is more than likely that they would fall for this trap, which would more than likely make Riku win the race.
Pretty much this. But, I feel as though Square knows their audience (partly yaoi-loving fangirls) and decided to put that crying scene in to pander to this particular part of their fanbase. Not so much as to blatantly say that they're homosexual, but to give enough leeway for speculation of their sexuality for this particular part of the fanbase. This is further supported by the fact that Roxas's and Axel's friendship also has some homosexual undertones, particularly in KH2, when Axel tries his hardest to make Roxas remember him, is heart-broken when he doesn't remember him (not to mention the whole heart motif that goes on in the games), fights him to perhaps "knock some sense" into him, and sacrifices himself to save Roxas (who was inside Sora). What's even more is that both the Axel/Roxas and Riku/Sora friendships have this whole younger brother/older brother dynamic that's a typical trope in many things yaoi-related (or at least from what I've seen). Also, since there's no confirmed heterosexual relationships among the original characters in the game, it makes the possible homosexuality among the characters just as likely as their heterosexuality. As far as we know, all of the original main characters could just as well be homosexual, since there's literally nothing telling us that any of them are heterosexual. BUT THE MORE IMPORTANT QUESTION IS are Kairi and Namine gay? They've been shown running together in KH2 holding hands. Must mean they're attracted to each other amirite?
My roommate told me hates him for some reason. We've been drifting apart ever since.
That's true, too. Most guys talk to girls without making their intentions clear, which leads to frustration when the guy gets put in the, dare I say it, "friendzone." I always be forward with the girls I talk to, which leads me to a much more satisfying love life. Additionally, if a girl and I get intimate sans commitment, I'd like to ask her what she wants to make out of what just happened (either pursue a relationship, make it be just a one-time thing, or a friends with benefits type deal). A lot less confusion and a lot less broken hearts. I wish we could all communicate our desires without masking things. I personally like to ask a woman for the time, or where something is before coming clean and saying "Oh never mind, I just thought you were cute and wanted to talk to you." And proceed the conversation from there, and then ask for her number after it all. I mean really, one of the only acceptable ways for a stranger to talk to someone else is asking for directions or the time, and you come off as less creepy (as opposed to pick up lines or cat calls, or whatever) and more like a normal guy. First impressions are everything, after all. But yeah, go out and try it. I highly recommend it. Worst thing that can happen is that she says no because you're not her type, has a boyfriend, or is gay. Literally none of those things are your fault, and her saying no is the worst thing that could happen, so what do you have to lose? (ALSO, stand up straight, and be confident while doing it.)
Now, I'm not one to generalize, but generally speaking women do not take the initiative to talk to guys. A short anecdote: Spoiler I hadn't really paid attention to this until this one girl took the initiative to talk to me and wasted no time in telling me she was interested in me. I was so tsurprised by this that I thought one of my friends were playing a prank on me. Now, is it because women have a wider sexual selection (and therefore shouldn't have to seek a mate)? Is it because the old formula of men making the first move have some precedence over it? Is it because women don't want to be seen as desperate, or "thirsty"? Is it because women are trained to be more passive? Your thoughts, I would like them.
