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Right, well, okay, i feel really pathetic for asking for help on this type of thing on a freaking internet forum. D: Never done anything like this before, but i really don't know what else to do.

Okay, yes it is all about a freaking relationship, i understand most people probably think it's pointless but this entire situation is confusing the hell out of me so deal with it.

So I'm dating this kid named Andrew. He's 2 years older than me and we've been dating since October 16th. I have no classes with him, not even lunch. We met because we were both on the cross country team at our school.

Right, so to explain this, i need to go back. like pretty far back. Also on the cross country team was this girl named Meghan and a french exchange student named Luc. So Andrew and I met in cross country and he decided to ask me to homecoming, where I obviously said yes. 10 days later he asked me out. During this time, Meghan was also asked to homecoming and went out with Luc in the exact same timeframe. However, Andrew and Meghan had known each other for ages and were good friends.

So time passed by and both of our relationships developed. Andrew and me got closer, started calling each other nearly every night, and yes, i did make out with him a few times. Meghan and Luc were even closer than us, they make out nearly every time they see each other and talk on the phone nearly 4 hours a night. He bought her a $120 ring for christmas.

Since Andrew didn't ask me out until October 16th, cross country ended a week later. Then we had 3 weeks with no comittments after school. God, that was wonderful. We'd hang out every day and there was this one spot in the school where nobody goes after school but it has this awesome view and we'd go there and just sit there and talk. It was great.

Well, that ended, because Andrew is a diver. Yes, this means he's on the diving team, and Diving practice had to start. Me and my friend Chelsea both seriously considered doing diving because there are guys on the team that both of us like. (I like andrew and she likes another guy on the diving team.) However, we opted out of it at the last minute because my stress fracture from Cross Country was still hurting a bit and neither of us had any experience in the sport whatsoever.

Around this time was when the first slightly weird thing happened. Andrew is only allowed to drive one person to diving practice which takes place at a seperate location from the school for the reason that there aren't any diving boards at our school pool. When I was going to do diving, I was expecting him to drive me, but he told me that he couldn't because he was going to drive Meghan, who was also, obviously, a diver. She dove last year as well.

So the after school stuff had to end and Andrew began going to diving practice every day after school. But it was all still good. He'd still call me on the phone a lot and on weekends we hung out a ton. When I first started dating him, i wasn't sure how much i liked him, but as we dated i started to like him a lot more. Meghan's boyfriend Luc also did diving, so she was with him all the time. However, Meghan is the only girl diver on the entire diving team. Andrew spends lots of time with her.

So I started looking at Meghan's myspace and noticed in around June that her and andrew had exchanged about 100 incredibly flirtacious comments over the course of 3 days. Now I don't really care about that, it was a while ago. However, I do remember Andrew telling me the only reason he decided to join Cross Country was because of 'friends.' Practice started in June. Meghan was on cross country. ......?

Andrew also had a girlfriend last year named Megan, but it was a diferent megan. No h. They dated for about a year and he broke up with her unexpectedly. It was later revealed that this was because he liked Meghan.

Now he was a really nice and good boyfriend most of the time but in the past 2 weeks he's been odd. Christmas break means more of him seeing the diving team and less of him seeing me. He hasn't been calling me back or answering any of my texts. Last night a bunch of people hung out at meghan's house and hung out and it was the strangest it's been. He barely sat by me and didn't even act like he liked me at all. I was really really sad afterwards. I texted him and asked him if anything was wrong on the way home. No answer.

Now I'm really really upset because I like him a ton, more than i did before, and as i'm starting to like him more it almost seems like he likes me less, and it's really upsetting me because i don't care if he liked meghan all along and wanted to be with her, but i feel like if he did he shouldn't have even dated me and got me into this mess because he knows that since Luc is an exchange student he's leaving in june so meghan and luc won't be together forever. I feel like if that's true he might just be using me until meghan's done with luc or something, and that really pisses me off because i don't want to believe it because i like him a ton but with the way he's been acting i don't know what to do.

I really don't want to break up with him. I want this to be resolved. I need to talk to him. But if he never answers my texts or phonecalls and acts like i don't even know him when we hang out, how the hell am i supposed to do that.

God i am so confused. and i just ranted about my personal life online. I feel really pathetic.
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Right, so I have a Motorola W755 in purple that I just got for christmas. I'm on a plan, i have texting and all of that good stuff. Is there any possible way for me to download or create my own ringtones? The ones they have available for purchase are basically all stupid and I have this one song I really want as my ringtone. The wikihow article didn't work for me and i'm kind of hesitant to put my number into a website like mobile17. Help?
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