I was not trying to garner pity for myself in any way in my post, and that is what I was trying to explain. Do I seem like a person who has been through all of that? No, most likely not. I was merely trying to show that personal character and morale can overcome almost anything and I am living proof. Never have I expressed my feelings in a way that I wished for sympathy from anyone. I am simply not that type of person. The only reason my post might come off as selfish is because it was. Simply put, I'm not going to lie. Kay is an adult. She can fend for herself, and she honestly should. My post was to no one but Kay herself, so it really wasn't necessary for you two to step in and try to back her up. That is in some cases the greatest approach to fixing any problem you encounter in life. It doesn't help her at all if everyone just steps in front of her and gives off excuses and more reasons to be depressed. Repliku, I have nothing but respect for you. You help people basically every day and your posts are always meaningful, but if you are as smart as I think you are, you should agree with me. Kind words and motivation from others can only carry one so far, and as much as you all might feel it does wonders, it really doesn't. kitty, I'm sorry, but you honestly have no place to judge me at all. You rarely know me, and from the times I've talked with you, it seems you don't care either. You have ignored me quite a few times, to be honest. That's all I have to say to you. Again, Kay, you know how I feel. We've talked extensively on some of these circumstances and for a while it seemed to help you. Not for long, though. There is obviously something going on in your life that is holding you back from even yourself, and I don't think anyone knows it. I'm not going to tell you to not take any offense from what I said in my earlier post, I just hope you understand that all I've ever tried to do to help you just seemed in vain. This is just what I feel. I'm not going to sugar-coat what I have to say when supposedly someone's life is on the line here. It really doesn't help anything. If you don't like it, I'm honestly sorry. This is who I am. Straight-forward, harsh, and possibly uncourteous in some regards.
I'm getting married in Hawaii. Hell yeah, unoriginal. But neither is a church.
Cut the **** dude. PM me if I'm missing something here, but he obviously wants you to leave him alone. Don't do it again. Locked.
EDIT: LOL wow I'm really an idiot. Shows how much I know about religion.
No one can make you feel inferior without your own consent. Honestly Kay, it doesn't help anything when you say **** like "OH WELL I'M JUST A **** UP LOLLLZZ". Why the hell would anyone want to even help you then? That's basically shoving everything someone is trying to say to help you back in their face. Not helping at all. I'm literally sick and tired of people complaining they've got it so bad, when they really don't. In your case, Kay, it's a little different. I know some of what you've been through, but honestly, you've got it good. I live in a broken home. I've lost my father. I've watched men come and go, treat my mother like ****, and walk out. I've gotten hit (hard) many times trying to stand up for my family, and it's taken it's toll. Technically speaking, emotion-wise, I should be dead, or perhaps a serial killer. I've lived on the streets. I've had the embarrassment of getting free lunch at school, walking into the line with my friends and telling the staff that I'm on the list for free lunch, and EVERYONE knows that means you're poor. It wasn't as bad as when I was a little younger, my mom would pack me lunch and by the time we ate, my milk was warm and starting to harden. Yeah, I still drank it too. I could honestly go on for hours, but I really just want you to know how much it pisses me off when people cry for attention when there are so many people out there that are an inch from death, but they struggle every day to stay alive. But some of you take life for granted so badly, that you think you can just end it when you're down, that easily. Kay, I love you. I really do. You're awesome and I love talking to you, but lately it's been different. Every time we talk you bring up something depressing, and you joke about it. It's not ****ing funny, and that's why I stop responding. It angers me. If you want to fix your life, do it. There's nothing stopping you but yourself, and that's what I think it is. You're afraid, but you don't have to be. If you want to talk to me about this, quit the bullshit and don't make jokes. I'm your friend and I care about you. I honestly don't need to deal with that **** right now. I'd be glad to help you as much as I can, but everytime I try, I feel it's in vain. You don't listen to me. It's like you want to stay unhappy, and if you do, so be it.. Just please don't drag me into it with you.
For a second I thought this thread might have been serious. Darn..
It's actually REALLY annoying, but I really don't care. xD
What about his evil brother? And his father, too. Full demon and all. HEHE
Yeah I agree, although not all health care covers stuff like that, so some people get shafted and they found out when it's already too late.
9.5/10 Love it. There's something incredibly tiny that doesn't seem right to me, but I can't put my finger on it. Otherwise, awesome.
I'm mad at you. .__.
Yeah, it really sucks. A handful of soccer players have died from it in the last 5 years, and I'm really clueless as to why it's only the athletes. Like, can you live with it without anything happening? Does it only happen while playing a sport, or are athletes just unlucky? Whatever the case, it's tragic. Miklos Feher was an awesome striker, too.
I liked Jumper. ;__;
No problem. :] Locked.
I Know Who Killed Me
My theory is that while we sleep and dream, a part of our brain recites the previous events and stores memories, etc, and sometimes it goes too far and a portion of the future or possibly just a calculation of what will happen next occurs, thus if it does happen, our mind has already seen it.
His name is grey, if you look close enough. He can come on the forums, but he basically can't do anything.
Xendran, seriously, don't listen to any of these people. If she needs to get the abortion, go for it. You're way too young to deal with that.
She didn't. She almost did.
Yeah, kinda reminds me of the movie John Q. Maybe it's true that doctors get paid more when they don't do expensive check-ups like heart conditions and stuff. Health care isn't how it should be in any country, and it really sucks. What I don't really get is why it happened when he wasn't doing anything extensive. He was walking. You'd think that it would happen when he was running or something.