Hey guys, I swear I'll post up the voting thread for #9 soon, I've jst gotten swanped with uni stuff
pfft woops lol well then good job!
That explains so much...
That song works so well with your sig
Uhh....yeah I kinda...um...have a lot of...work stuff going on so....I don't really...um...have time...for *RUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUNNN*
Well its 7am.... Ok, agreed, time for bed!
Awwww thankyou my lovely <3
Get off the stage......
Okay all your advice was very very good-but this bit here was GOLD! TRIGGER! To talk, you must text. random compliments are amazing because even if you don't really have all that much time to have a conversation, a short, sweet compliment brightens her day (eww cheesiness). It will really help you guys communicate more because it lets her know that you're busy but you're still thinking about her. I'm kinda having the same problem with a friend of mine (my ex, but my best friend nevertheless). We used to speak all day everyday (post-breakup) and now with uni we've kinda stopped. Hell I tried talking to him and he thought I wanted to get back together (bleh). Anyway what you should gather from this is that the communication cannot be forced. Forced communication leads to awkwardness, and this awkwardness will pretty much deflate your relationship cause she'll feel the tension. A simple text, a 'good morning beautiful' works the best (though if your gf is anything like me you'll get a foot up your ass). She will appreciate it! Even though you two are busy, it still shows that you care. NOW THEN let us talk about conversational things. Now if you haven't learnt the hard way already-one relationship consists of 2 individuals. You must put up with whatever the hell she wants to talk about even if you absolutely cannot stand it. Relationships are about love and all that crap, but also about tolerance. You cannot always force the video game topic on her because it's obviously not one of the stronger things you have in common with her. Focus on what you do have in common, and if you've covered all that, "how was your day?" is the easiest way to instigate some conversation. Even though whatever she's going to say might be really boring, you have to stay interested. Communication problems are indeed a sign that something is off, but don't freak out! The absolute worst thing you can do is over-think, and then over-text, because she will dump you for being all clingy and stuff. Do nothing more than the odd "good morning beautiful" and "how was your day" and see where the conversation takes you. You don't want to be doing this everyday though. Make it a random occurrence, so it doesn't get redundant and boring. It will keep her waiting for the next text, and THAT is what you want to do! I will conclude by saying my ex and I broke up for virtually the same reason. School started taking its toll on us, and he feared about how little we were communicating, so he would text me all day everyday without realising I was ridiculously busy. Then he insisted on coming over etc etc. I didn't believe he was giving me the space I needed so we broke up. That's kinda what you want to avoid. The worst thing you can do is panic! Just follow my advice-short, sweet texts on random days, and I will be very surprised if no conversation comes from it. Good luck :)
oh hey there ;)
Spoiler Family went out for mother's day dinner (check the necklace! :p) Note: Red Lipstick is a pain in the ass
Pleased to announce we have 3 entries for Idol #9!! You have approx. 3 days left! :)
Do you think the paopu fruit loses its effect the more people you share it with?
I studied the actual Hercules story in high school...let's just say there are some slightly major differences between that and the Disney version o.O Also, I'm Greek, so I'm not exactly sure how I should feel about this
Oh hey
Doesn't have to be romantic, it could just be a friend that you don't want to lose
Basically what the title says. Any person (doesn't have to be a member) you would share a paopu fruit with? Or would you keep it to yourself? This should be interesting... gogogo!!
screw anonymity Okay awesome! I'll add you to the list, just PM your entry by June 5 :)
Definitely not too late to join! But you do have just over a week to send me an entry
Update! Hey dudes, i've only received one entry for #9. Get them in soon! :)
