Wow, this really took off! I'm glad so many people have a view on this haha. Okay, here we go. @Patman , @C , @Boy Wonder @Incognitus I do very much understand your point. A relationship without sex is a friendship...to you guys anyway (which seems to be the norm but anyway). My point being that if my partner reeeeaaaallllyyyyy wanted to have sex, it would depend on whether I was comfortable enough with them (which would take a while). If I said no and he got fed up, obviously that would be it. If I were comfortable to do that for him (because I loved him, as Princess said) then it would be okay. If I were finally comfortable with having sex with my SO, it wouldn't be a chore for me, so long as they knew how important of a step it was for me. I don't want them to sit there and go "YES WE'RE FINALLY HAVING SEX! THANK GOD!" That would bother me. I would be willing to compromise, so long as they knew that it's a big deal and it was out of love, not just because he wanted me to/pressured me to, or not just out of satisfaction. I think there's a difference between sex as a necessary part and sex as a big deal. Most allosexuals I know have sex all the time because it's a necessary part of their relationship, but it's not necessarily a big deal, they just do it whenever they want. But if I were to have sex with my parter, it would be a big deal because it doesn't happen often and I would need to be reeeeaaaaallllyyyyy comfortable with them. Also, I'm not opposed to my partner masturbating. It's a natural thing to do, by all means do it. It irks me a little, but if you need to do that, especially because we're not having sex, then by all means go for it. ...Am I making sense at all? I'm a university student. People talk about sex more often than anything else. People use the uni parties as a mating ritual. People have sex in the library, in the music rooms, in the science buildings, on the lawn. I am aware that there are plenty of aces around...but I'm just surrounded by so many sex-crazed people that I probably don't see them. But you may be right. Sex with someone else would be cheating, imo, but masturbation wouldn't be. I definitely wouldn't see masturbation as an insult either. I've heard people say you shouldn't masturbate in a relationship because you have someone to get you off and it's more or less embarrassing to get off by yourself when you have someone else. I could be completely wrong, though. I'm really glad you brought that up And herein lies our problem. I'm pretty sure that I, or any ace for that matter, would ever want to feel like they're being selfish for saying they didn't like/want sex. In most cases, it's the truth. There are some aces who do even enjoy sex (I'm not one of them. I'd probably be one of those who won't have sex until I am 100% absolutely comfortable with you, which would take a very long time). This is not all about the sexual respecting the asexual's needs, because it works the other way too. But this is what I said in the beginning of the post. They would need to at least understand that its a fairly big deal for me to agree to sex. Again, not sure if I made sense at all. The sexual wouldn't necessarily always need to compromise for the asexual, and I would be fine with them masturbating. And if they absolutely needed to have sex and I was 100% comfortable with them, I would do it. Because I love them. That's the key here. I don't want to be selfish in telling them they can never have sex, but they at least need to know that it freaks me out and I wouldn't do it for a very long time, if at all. Oh just on that...I don't really mind erotic fanfiction, but I love fanfiction love stories! I'm currently reading a Portal fanfiction where GLaDOS falls in love with Wheatley and it's just adorable and they have a little baby robot and just...awww. There's no sex in it, because they're robots. It's nice haha. ..sorry, I just got really off topic. Carry on!
I'm coming to terms with something that is scaring me, yet feels unbelievably right at the same time: I'm asexual. I don't have any (if at all) sexual attraction and I dont really regard it highly, if I regard it at all. To a lot of people that's really strange. I recently saw someone anonymously confess on my university's Facebook page that they were looking for a relationship even though they were asexual, and this was a response: "So as a point of academic curiosity, would you be upset if this hypothetical boyfriend wanted to have sex with other people?" It got me thinking. Sleeping with someone else when you're in a relationship is cheating no matter what. If I were in a relationship with someone, I'd want him to respect that I dont really enjoy...that. I'd love him in every other sense of the word...just not like that. My apologies. I'm rambling. But I have a question for you all anyway: If you were in a relationship with someone who was asexual, or just had very little sexual desire, would you be able to stay faithful? Consider everything else they are willing to do for you. If they loved you to bits, would you stay faithful, knowing that sex is pretty much off the table? This question is more out of curiosity than anything. I am worried about my future relationships as an ace, but that's not important here. I would just like your opinion.
How on earth do you see a brown-haired grape? hahahaha I'm really trying to see that! :P Anyway, glad you like them :)
Wasssuuuuuuppppp KHV I've been messing around on Photoshop and trying to create more original things. Firstly, here's some fan art I made for my favourite Youtuber. The aim was just to make him look really cute. This was the first time I had drawn something and then coloured it through photoshop :) Spoiler and this is an icon I made for my new gaming channel. Let me know what you think of it :) Spoiler
Voting thread is up! http://kh-vids.net/threads/khvi-9-voting.150180/
Hey hey hey!!! Welcome to another round of KHV Idol! The theme for this round was Movies, where entrants could sing a song from any movie! Here are your entries!
My apologies. Last week was one of my worst weeks, uni work wise. At least I'm alive lol. Expect the voting thread either Monday or Tuesday night. I've had a pretty terrible week, and it won't be over until Monday afternoon.
I really like that idea :) it would be awesome to have a multiplayer thing with a bunch of people from here :) ANYWAY GUYS, I did more things:
Yeah it was yours
Hey all, I've only received one entry so far, so deadline is extended till Saturday :)
I am Bread Ep. 2: Also, I'm starting a series on Portal 2, because I've never actually played it: I'm really glad you enjoy the videos. Any and all feedback is muchly appreciated! :)
Oh awesome, I'm so glad you enjoyed it!! Here's one I just uploaded. I might limit this to one video every few days or something. But yeah, I did another thing: MANLIEST GAME EVER! | Expendabros:
I decided to try my hand at making a Lets Play video/channel. This is my first one. Let me know what you think! :) EDIT: Now that I'm actually getting into this, I will try my hand at organising these videos: I Am Bread PORTAL 2 Portal Stories: Mel Geometry Dash Mortal Kombat X Note: I cannot update this series yet as the game has stopped working on my computer Beatbuddy: Tale Of The Guardians Spoiler: One-off games https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vqqppO7scpM Happy Wheels Vlogs/Subscriber Milestones/Various Other Things Undertale KINGDOM HEARTS Broforce Nihilumbra Cards Against Humanity Music Things
LADDER UPDATED: 1. Sebax- 53 points 2. darkhorseD- 51 points 3. Amethyst- 28 points 4. Tale Wind- 8 points KHVI #9 theme: Movies Sing any song from a movie! Deadline: Wednesday April 22 Happy Singing!
Results are in and..... It's a tie! We hope to see you next time for another round of KHV Idol!!! :)
Hey all! Welcome to another round of KHV Idol! The theme for this round was Noughtie Tunes! Here are your entries!! Voting ends in 7 days Happy Voting! :) EDIT: Sorry guys, I forgot the poll! Post to vote please :)
Hey guys, sorry for the lateness. Voting thread will be up tomorrow, with new guidelines and ladder update. Thanks a bunch :)
Hey all, I've only received one entry so far, so I'm giving an extension until Saturday :)
Hey all! I've been messing around on FL Studio, and well I came up with something. But I would like your absolute honesty and brutal constructive criticism on it. Anything at all-the music, the vocals, the harmonies, the lyrics-anything! I would really love to know what you guys think of this so I know how to improve it. This song is dedicated to a friend of mine who is going through a tough time. It's a message of support, to let him know that myself and the rest of our friends are going to help him out no matter what. Please be brutally honest, as any and all constructive criticism would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!
Well guys, I'm really happy to announce that this has generated a lot of support from other sources! If any YouTubers here would like to register, the link is here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1hTBhcfftdO9IQzmaMtW0h5mk3JWJyyoPHqESpjnG-Hw/viewform?usp=send_form
