Pinekaboo
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Still here every day, just not a lot to say in response to people's posts lately. Feb 13, 2019

    1. Lauriam
      Lauriam
      Yes, but even you just said "Until I feel right." What happens when you're caught up in a moment where it feels right, because the lines are blurred so closely together that it's just one short step from "here" to "there"?
      You also say that "both parties are idiots who didn't think before they did," but didn't you just tell me "don't plan ahead for what you will and won't do, just do things if and when you're ready for them"? If I'm not supposed to plan ahead, then why are the two hypothetical parties idiots for not doing what I am not supposed to do? Wouldn't I then be an idiot if I did what they did and not think ahead?

      Yeah, I'd want to kiss him. But that doesn't neccessarily mean that I should. What happens when I 'Want" to go further? Should I do that to? You as my bro, would get very angry if I did. But you also are encouraging me to not draw a line, but take life as it happens. Sometimes, life happens in a way that isn't neccessarily beneficial to me.

      I see. That also is a very dangerous way to live. It is often very difficult to know just how easy it is to slip just by watching someone else do so. For example, the other day I was walking up to somebody's house, and I saw that the steps leading up to the porch were covered in a layer of ice. Now, I have great balance. I've run down icy streets before and not stumbled. This looked no different. I stepped up on the stair and promptly slipped and fell into the snow. The point is, I thought I could handle myself in a slippery situation, but I underestimated just how easy it was to fall. In the same way, if you deliberately put yourself in situations where others have fallen, you could very well underestimate just how difficult a situation is, and one day, you might fall harder than the one you once laughed at.

      That is why I draw my lines so far away from actual danger. Better to not even come close than to slip up where it counts. For example, I have decided not to kiss someone before I get married. That way, if I do screw up, then it's because I kissed someone, which really isn't bad at all. But if my line is "Just don't have sex", and I screw up, the consequences are much worse. Logically, it makes more sense to draw a line far from danger then it does to draw it pretty close.
    2. Lauriam
      Lauriam
      Honestly, I dissagree with that statement. It makes more sense to draw a line beforehand then it does to wait and just let life happen. Kissing is perfectly harmless, I think, but it can lead to other things. Start with an innocent kiss, later you start getting more and more passionate, later you start making out, one thing leads to another, and if there's no preset line, then one moment of taking life as it comes turns into a regret you'll have tomorrow. Most teenage pregnancies happen because both members of a relationship never drew the line.

      And if I'd have trouble holding back from kissing the right guy when I'm not used to kissing, then if I was already used to kissing, I would have trouble holding back from having sex with the right guy.

      Also, a lot of teens today have the mindset that life is all about making mistakes and learning from them. Just look at that valedictorian's speech in the Twilight movies. Go out there and make mistakes, because we're teenagers, that's what teens do. Logically, it makes much more sense to learn from the mistakes of others. I would rather watch somebody else slip on a patch of ice and then avoid that particular spot myself then to just learn for myself by falling on my face. So, watching everybody else make mistakes, I've concluded that it is much safer for me to remain on this side of the line I drew.
    3. Lauriam
      Lauriam
      Lol, but it's so much fun!!!

      Why thank you. I do try.

      I see. lol, I've never even gotten so much as a valentine, so I don't think I'll be getting the chance for a kiss anytime soon. Not to mention, I've pretty much decided to not kiss anyone 'till my wedding day. Makes it more romantic when it happens.
    4. ShibuyaGato
      ShibuyaGato
      Still, it was a decent guess, what with all my jokes about abusing his connections and possessions.

      Oh yeah, just watch the other two parts. And you know what else?

      I enjoy Coldplay as well. No lie. <333333333
    5. Lauriam
      Lauriam
      Haha, I was right! XD

      I really don't care either way, I'm just playing along for the sake of the INVSP thing. XD

      I see. That makes sense. Yeah, then I guess I would weigh in the options of either the dare given or the preset forfeit, and I would do the least embarrasing of the two.
      But yeah, I've never kissed anyone. You don't need to pry, I'll tell it to you straight.
    6. Lauriam
      Lauriam
      I don't think so. I could be wrong, of course, but I'm pretty sure I used the correct term. I used Bear, as in: (according to dictionary.com)
      to hold up under; be capable of: His claim doesn't bear close examination.
      bear out, to substantiate; confirm: The facts bear me out.
      bear on / [IMG]upon, to affect, relate to, or have connection with; be relevant to: This information may bear on the case.
      I won't include a picture parallel to yours as what I think of when I see "bare in mind," firstly because I do not wish to search for one, and secondly, because I wouldn't post one even if I found it.

      lol, I must admit, I have never played Truth or Dare irl, and so I didn't even know there were rules about forfeit. I just figured forfeit was just quitting, and you lost.
    7. CrownMoksha
      CrownMoksha
      Did I miss anything for Dearche's team?
    8. ShibuyaGato
      ShibuyaGato
      Alright, I'll take your word for it.

      Also, why must British television be so amazing and so far off?
    9. ShibuyaGato
      ShibuyaGato
      How do you know he didn't just slip a quick PM by Llave while he was doing all that?
    10. ShibuyaGato
      ShibuyaGato
      No, Daxa would've said it differently.

      I still say Feenie or Bushy.
    11. ShibuyaGato
      ShibuyaGato
      Well, I've used kekeke before on more than one occasion, so you really never know.
    12. Llave
      Llave
      Message for you in the Postbox!
    13. ShibuyaGato
      ShibuyaGato
      You sure? I don't think my HermanoBro would be so... trollish towards me. Even in the Postbox, he wouldn't have added that last part.
    14. Llave
      Llave
      well played .
    15. Llave
      Llave
      I am underpaid by color and access to certain places.
    16. Llave
      Llave
      > Has been here 2 years
      > Is premium in 4 months
      > Underpaid staff
      > ????
      > Profit
    17. Llave
      Llave
      No, you are interesting. Verily so, it's just if everyone interesting becomes premium, we won't have many noobs to laugh at. I mean, talk with.
    18. Llave
      Llave
      Clearly... I just hope there will be more regular interesting members joining, that way the balance will be kept.
    19. Llave
      Llave
      what to premium? xD
    20. Llave
      Llave
      I get ya, but I suppose then I am referring to the guys and gals that come on just to RP. I don't know them, and if they up in the ranks it'll just be awkward I guess.
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