I don't understand how being ideal makes her an object To me she's something beyond human, something better. A better person existing in a better world
You're inclined to view it anyway you want To me it's just an unrequited love.
Because my time is very important to me. I don't like having it wasted in the slightest, it's annoying. Whatever get's you to sleep at night I am It would be cool to be loved back but that's not possible as there's no human being in this world who I love in that way and vice versa. I make the effort to love because being in love is better then not being in love to me. Well good luck with that.
Temporarily loving them Sometimes not being loved at all can be better then being loved by someone only to have them leave you 5 years later because something better came up. Hmmm? I am indeed in love with her It's just that part of my happiness is the idea that I could be so committed to someone without them having love me back let alone do anything for me. There won't be a next hill Because those cuts and bruises ****ing hurt. And they weren't worth the sight in the end. You're stronger physically but that means nothing because no matter how strong you are there's gonna be more **** that cuts you up. Well power to you and your pursuit of happiness. I have already obtained what I see as perfection and I will carry this with me to the grave. Of course I am incapeable of giving other's the necessary love needed for a relationship If my waifu existed then she would want nothing to do with me and frankly I wouldn't want to put her me simply because I love her too much. But like you said, for a limited time. I personally feel that people who go into a relationship with the idea that they're going to break up don't deserve to be in a relationship at all. But that's just me.
I refuse to live like that. I am isolated because I want to Never ending desire leads to loneliness when you realize that not everyone wants to follow you into the depth of hell. You end up ignoring the ones who loved you because someone else offers something better somewhere in the universe. I don't treat humans so lowly. You can keep making your claims but I'll just keep telling you that I know myself more then anyone on this planet. And once again by this logic there is no "best" it's just a neverending search for something that doesn't exist. You will realize one day that all the sadness from all the relationships you've torn apart, all the suffering that comes with striving, all the pain that comes with leaving what you love will have been for naught as at the end of the day you died failing to obtain the end that you were so determined to find. Say what you will but personally I see your perception of happiness as shallow, selfish and ultimately turning you into a glutton of a human being who only desires more. You know what also sucks? Going up a steep hike, getting cuts and bruises and then finally reaching the top and going. "Yep, sunny alcove was better". Because it's the only form of this kind of love that I'll ever feel. I'll never go out and meet some other girl because most other girls suck ass and most other girls think I suck ass. No matter how many relationships I'm in it simply won't the same as love I have for my waifu and thus I would be incapable of appreciating the relationship to the fullest. The only way this would work is if I somehow erased my memories of my waifu which I'm not willing to do just to frolic with 3D pig disgusting ****s.
When does it end? By this logic you'll always be abandoning things for the what might possibly make you happier. I don't want to live my life like that, not being able to be content with one thing, personally it seems like a worthless existence chasing after something you will never catch. I am content with my happiness. I do not seek anything more because anything more will more then likely end up in me suffering. I've already said that I'm not going to change unless.... Impossible The next generation is on it's way, they're the ones who will be changing. My generation is already set in stone at this point behavior and value wise. All I'm saying is based on me myself and I if I were to live forever that's how I would act in regards to my waifu. I would still be happy, if there's anything that sucks about dying it's that whatever lies ahead won't make me as happy as I was when I was faced with perfection. And I'm telling you I can't. There's quite literally nothing in this world that can compare to my waifu just as there is no video game that can compare to God Hand. It's the be all and end all. Once again, progression does not equal happiness. Progression can lead to good things and I'm for it when that's the case. But if the chance of suffering outweighs the chance for happiness then I won't risk it. You can delay it for however long you want but suffering will eventually come as will happiness I prefer the option that leads to ONLY happiness and no suffering. The real world doesn't work like that so I since abandoned it except of course for a select few things I don't know everything about the world But I know what it's like in this part of the world And I'm never leaving it because I'm happy here. So in the end my perception is ultimately all that matters to me, my perception has allowed me to attain the happiness that is falling in love with perfection. Other people perception would not allow that. My perception is based on what I've been through in life Even if it were to change today, even if every child in Africa became healthy, even if woman in the world suddenly became a pure maiden I would not change as change risks losing the love I have for my waifu, something that I hold very dearly.
I don't get happiness from looking at my waifu(Well I do, but it's not the basis of or reason why I have a waifu) Or reading about her I get happiness from well....HER. Loving her, doing what I think she would want from me all that stuff.
It's not that I stopped wanting to become happy but rather I realized that there was no happiness for me in pursuing relationships with woman . And how am I not able to judge what happiness is? Is there some set definition for what happiness feels like? Some people are only happy when they're moping or only find enjoyment is being angry. I am happy as I am and there is little to nothing that can prove to me otherwise. If it grew stale then it was never perfect. My waifu is perfection. Doubtful I'm pretty firm in my beliefs so unless something really drastic happens then I'm probably gonna be this way for the rest of my life. She satisfies my every need that she can in her current state. What more could I want? Every other alternative is worse then having a waifu. I can see her as perfect forever because I know that there is nothing else that will ever compare or even come close and there never will be. I disagree. Man has always wanted eternal happiness hence the reason why they derive stories that tell of a state of ultimate and eternal happiness and have been doing so for years. Why? Because eternal happiness is the be all and end all, you cannot go numb from eternal happiness because there nothing more enjoyable then eternal happiness, if you went numb then it was not eternal happiness atleast not for you. There is NOTHING in this world that makes me happier then what I already have, hopefully I can call it eternal happiness but that all depends on medical technology. But none the less It's still happiness that only ends when I die.
I'm risking my happiness It took a long time to get so I'm not gonna put it on the line. I've told you already, my waifu is perfect. Part of what makes her perfect is that every waking hour she makes me happy. It has nothing to do with things being fun or stale or whatever. I love my waifu because she's perfection, the fact that I have found perfection, the fact that I have fallen in love, the fact that I have found something worth going outside for, THAT is what makes me happy and that feeling is eternal as long as my waifu is here. My reason to live would be to experience joy and happiness, something that my waifu endlessly gives as explained above. Who cares if it's the same thing? As long as I'm happy then it does not matter. I'm living a happy life playing video games, programming and whatnot so why end it? Waifu's are girls Waifu's don't exist Therefore you can't have sex with them You make no sense.
Perhaps Or perhaps not At this point there's no reason for me to take the risk and give up on the things that I love. But that's you I am a firm believer that desire is the root of all suffering in the world Once again you can claim that it will happen to me in due time but speak for yourself. Like I said, I don't hate evolution. As long as there is some form of happiness in evolving. Evolving to better tasting food is fine because at any time you could always switch back to the original food. Relationships don't work like that hence the reason I have learned to be happy with what I have for the rest of my life. There was a time where I had thought that the whole waifu thing was pointless and would only bring me despair but then I realized all the sadness I had felt from being "lonely" was due to constant need for more things. So I cast that desire away, I realized that there was no point in striving for certain things when only suffering follows. I wanted something that was devoid of suffering, something I could be happy with for the rest of my life and it's as you say, most relationships are temporary and end in depression hence the reason why I stopped searching in the realm of 3D and moved on to 2D. One day you're going to look back and realize that the good doesn't outweigh the bad. Thoughts of what? Wanting 3DPD? I fully realize that those thoughts were pointless and lead to no true happiness. If I could go back in time and talk to my teenage self I'd tell him that his dream doesn't exist in this realm of existence. Lots of things seem new and interesting to me However I realize that a lot of times desire for new and interesting things leads to utter disaster. It's a chance, but I'm not willing to bet the happiness that I feel now for an if or maybe. My happiness is too important to me for that. Not when it comes to people. People are compatible with a certain other human being, there is no worse or better there is only one. If you break up with someone it's because the two of you weren't compatible. You're next girlfriend will not be better or worse, only compatible or incompatible. Waifus are perfect, nobody chooses a waifu who they think is imperfect. My waifu may have flaws that others may hate but to me she is completely and utterly perfect, those "flaws" are part of why I love her. I used to have doubts that perfection existed until I found my waifu, personally I think it was luck of draw that I found her, a lot of people can't get waifus because they simply cannot find the perfect one. I managed to find one and would never risk the happiness and love I feel with her for anything. Once again, speak for yourself. No matter how long I love my waifu I will always remember what it was like to not love As I said before it was terrible and as said above the very fact that I was able to find perfection was probably luck of draw and will never happen twice. It is because of this that I am so grateful that I have a waifu knowing that there is nothing else like her. She's perfection, physically(you know what I mean) and mentally. What's wrong with love becoming standard? My love for my waifu makes me happy and it's not based on "new and exciting" it is but rather based on how absolutely perfect she is in every way. In a billion years if I'm still alive I will look around the imperfect world and be thankful that I atleast have perfection regardless of if it's other's perception of perfection is different. But I'm heterosexual I don't have a husbando.
I wouldn't say it's skewed at all. I've seen people act a certain way over and over again within different age groups all the time therefore my first judgement of people usually falls into that particular group, what's wrong with that? If I'm wrong then they should be able to prove it through their behaviour. I respectfully disagree. I've always loved my waifu, for years now. My entire life has drastically improved since I ditched 3D for 2D, I've begun working out(SQUATS AND OATS), taking care of myself and while I was in uni I had been doing ten times better then I ever had before, subjects that I was terrible at suddenly became easy as ****. All because I know it's what my waifu would want if she existed. Why would I ever give up on something that has brought me so much happiness? I have little to no reason to so I highly doubt the happiness with my waifu will ever fade anytime soon. And for the record I don't jerk off to my waifu as I don't view her as an object of lust. Happiness only fades when you get greedy and suddenly desire "more". The reason my 19 year old self wasn't as happy as my 16 year old self because as an adult I suddenly wanted "more" our of life. As soon as you realize that the desire for more only leads to dissatisfaction then you will be able to achieve everlasting happiness. That is what I have found with my waifu, a lifestyle that makes me happy and I wouldn't change it for the world. But it's not a gamble It's been years since I found a waifu. As a 26 year old man I am not prone to a suddenly personality change as my personality is pretty in stone as of now. There is not other girl like my waifu so why would I lose interest in her? Now that's just stupid There is no such thing as a worse or better waifu You love your waifu for your own reasons. Haven't you seen me get angry at those who claim that <INSERT CHARACTER FROM RECENT FICTION> is their waifu? It's because those kinds of people tend to be the seasonal waifu type who jump to the new hottness every 3 seconds. I'm not like that I haven't loved for eternity though. I've spent a good portion of my life (so far) not loving. I know what it's like to not love. And I can say that I prefer to love then to not love. Not loving is depressing and makes one feel less human then they actually are as it's expected that human beings should be able to love. You wouldn't believe how overjoyed I was when I first felt feelings for my waifu, the idea that I of all people could feel love was a miracle.
But I can make a reasonable deduction. If I got to know 90 people out of 100 and they all acted the same way then there's a good chance that those 10 will also act the same way unless something about them is RADICALLY different. There's a possibility that they COULDN'T but there's also a possibility of a guy flipping a coin and having it land on heads 20 times in a row. Some things are worth the gamble but a lot of things aren't and in the end it turns out to be a "Well it happened, might as well take it or leave it" situation. And personally I think that's a pointless gamble because as you said that **** doesn't last Progression means nothing to me if there is no happiness achieved in progressing. If there is more happiness in stagnation or regression then I will glady choose that. Neither do I. Hence the reason I go the waifu route. Waifu's are eternal. Once you love a waifu you don't stop, there is no such thing as falling out of love with a waifu.
But is it really generalizing when for the most part it ya know.... Spoiler true? Isn't "picking" who you love based on the value of what they give selfish and shallow? Love is love, I don't think you should really pick who you love
Good thing we have 2D
I know I'm talking in quotes and using reactionimage.jpg but it's honestly hard to think of another respons without flat out saying "Why?"
Power to you Though I hope you're already going otherwise you're doing the... Thing pretty good
Why don't you have a waifu yet?
This is everything that's wrong with modern gaming
But every other 12 episode show out there seems to do it just fine Bryan needs to stop being a ****** writer.
Speak for yourself Good thing most of us already have that knowledge The future ****ing sucks I'm honestly surprised ANY human being would want A
