like when certain parents hate their children or don't appreciate them, but don't really have a reason for it.
for example, I have two friends.
One of them is a sophomore and her mother hates her. She recently got braces, and her mother only got them for her because her mother was told she needed them. She kept complaining about her teeth and how she hadn't been able to eat because it hurt too much. Our teacher asked why and she said their's no mushy food at her house. when she asked why her mom couldn't go buy some, she replied that her mother hates her and that she's not her little sister. Today I found out that her mother hates her mainly because she was an accident and she "ruined her mother's life" because her mom got pregnant when she was young. how can she blame her for that? her mom was the one who got pregnant at 17. She recently performed with our choir, and her mother said all these wonderful things about the other girls, but criticized her own daughter's beautiful voice. I've heard her sing, she's amazing. I don't know....
And then there's my other friend. She's a junior, like me, and her mother constantly tells her that she can't sing and that she hates her. And she recently got pregnant with her.....7th daughter? Anyway, she calls her a spoiled brat and I know she's not. She also took her class ring away from her. She won't let her use the laptop that she won at school last year, that her mom didn't even pay or sign for, so I don't see why she should be able to do that. Her mom even restricts her use of her ipod touch, which she got from her mother's dead boyfriend.
I'm not trying to sound mean, but I just don't understand adults. Why would they do things like that? I don't see how it's my friend's fault her mother's life turned out so "horrible" and I just don't know how her mother can do all that when she didn't even buy those things (or in the case of the class ring, has no reason to take it).
I hope someone can shed some light on this sort of issue. It's really been bothering me.
Also, I hope this is in the right section and that I didn't ramble, or offend or confuse anyone because I tend to do that.
hi, I'm Merche. I'm new. I'm not entirely sure how I came across this place, but it had something to do with looking for an old friend of mine, and I love KH so I figured why not join? um, not sure what else to say...
